I have been harrassed at work and home by NC Cse for child support when their is no proof that the child is mine. They did not offer me the DNA test as required, but say that I refused it.
Every year at tax time they take my refunds for unpaid child support, but that is not possible. It comes out of my paycheck directly. All year long I am fine on payments, but at tax time they magically find arrears that I have to pay. Also, the mother of the child has told numerous people including me that the child is not mine.
My name is not on the birth certificate or any other documentation as the father, but they refuse to investigate. How can you come after someone for child support without establishing paternity fist? I went to court and asked for the amount to be reduced because I got laid off, that request was denied. How can I pay what I was paying when I was employed when Iam now unemployed. I was a seasonal worker, so I was not eligibile for unemployment. The DNA tests now have to be paid for by me and I also have to hire an attorney. This is not fair and Ihope that someone out there can help me. It's not that I don't want to take responsibility for my child.
I just want to know that he is mine before I give the state this money for 18 years. If he is mine fine, But I want visitation, although my money is paid faithfully I have not seen the child in 2 years. If he is mine and I am paying why is that?
I posed that question to NC CSE and the response was that they don't get involved in that part of it. They arte ruining my life and my marriage. Ijust want justice and the DNA test that I am entitled to by law because of the circumstances.
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