Well my story is going to be long but maybe something will happen after I write this.
Here is what happen...
Back in March I lost my job and I dropped out of college again and everything seemed to be going horribly wrong. I went into a depression and got stuck onto the internet playing a game. I would stay up all night and all day long. I didn't see the fact of what I was doing. I think with everything that had been building up for years and years my mind had crashed. I lost both my sister and my mother and I don't have a father that I know.
So... On with it right? What happen was my son decided that one day he was going to be a big boy and go take the dog for a walk at around 6am and he was only 3 1/2 years old. He learned to unlock the back door and he figured he didn't need to wake me up. Yes, I agree, this never should have happen but we all were asleep, even my daughter didn't know he was getting out. I hadn't had a job for many months now coz this happen in July/August and I was waiting on interviews. I had asked help to get locks on my doors but no one would help me. So what happens is I have no money and he got out again and the cops and CPS got called on me. Cops showed up first and of course it was the cop that hates me because he used to have relations with my married friend and he just didn't like me. Him and others including someone in my family called CPS on me. They showed up at my door and of course my house was not clean. It was dirty and I admit it was dirty. I had 47 years of stuff that my mother collected plus my things and my childrens things.in the basement there was cat poop and I did go down there to clean it up but it was just so cluttered that I couldn't get it all. The upstairs was a mess and my daughters room was horrible and I had been on her to clean her room up but things just were not good for my family. I know it wasn't good but I never had a criminal background or got into trouble for anything. I love my kids and always have and always will.
So after all of this was done I decided that I wanted to move. CPS said I was going to have a child abuse charge against me and it was going to go on my record. I talked with my grandma and she also thought it was a good idea for me to find something better in life. I was going to bring my kids with me but she offered to keep them so that I could find a job and a place to live and not have to worry about the kids. So I agreed and I wrote a letter stating that I would be gone for 2 weeks and I would be back to get the kids just needed to get a job and a place to live.
In the meantime after I left a family member called CPS on me again and said I had left my children with her old parents and that I had abandoned my kids and left town for an internet man. I never abandoned my kids and yes I knew someone off of the internet that lived here in the city that I moved to but I had known him for a long time. Another reason I felt it was safer for me to leave my kids behind just incase. I want my kids to always be safe. Anyways, I get ahold of CPS and they treated me like crap! They were forcing me to move back to Iowa and to force me into treatment and classes that I really didn't want to take. They never said anything was mandatory it was my choice then turned on me and said I had to do it. I turned around and went back to Iowa for a meeting 2 weeks later. Keep in mind one way trip is 1056 miles. They got me there by saying come to this meeting and we will let you keep your kids. Well it was a trick and they had already filed a CHINA report on me. Which is Child in Need of Assistance. They pretty much said I was a pycho and was putting my children in danger by making the choice to leave a town of 12,000 people into a city. Don't people and families relocate everyday?
So now I had to come back to my city without my kids because I was working. I was living with a mexican family and oh yes! Listen to this! I wasn't able to bring my kids back with me too because they needed to do a background check on the family I was living with because there was a reason they wanted me to bring my kids down here. CPS said because they were mexican they wanted to get my kids there so they could be slaves and transport them back to mexico!!! How more racist can a government department get!
I had to go back for court then in September and they decided that my children needed to stay with my grandparents until I got stablized. I had to prove myself and prove I was a decent mother. So I have done that! I have been away from my kids for 7 months! I am going back to Iowa again here in March for my last court date and this will be my 5th time back. You will never guess what they are trying to do now!
I have done everything I was to do, I got a stable full time job, apartment, took parenting classes and got my certificate, and kept in contact with my children the whole time through the phone and even went back for holidays!
I have lost 100 pounds too and I hadn't been depressed for 6 months now! Obviously its done good for me and I am a lot better person now. I learned a lot from all this and from my classes I took and learned how to be stronger than ever. I had never been away from my kids this long and I hope that this has made my kids stronger too but we just can't wait to be back together again!
So now this is all done and court is around the corner March and now what are they doing to me and my children.? Well I have gotten my things done but do you think CPS of Iowa has done their "ONE" thing they were supose to do! Of course not! They had 4 months (thats when I moved into my own place) to get a home study done and to have CPS of Texas come down here and inspect my home and make sure it is safe. They seem to not beable to keep one person on my case too. One girl decided she didn't know how to do her job and another took over and she don't know how to do hers either. I called a month before my court date to see about this home study and this lady didn't even know when my court date was. She then said she would get out this paperwork in the next couple days. 3 weeks later, she had just sent it out! It's not going to be finished before court and is now trying to change my court date because they have failed and me the worthless mother has done everything and has a portfolio to prove it!
If this date gets changed I'm going to be furious, I already took off from work and have this all planned out to bring my kids back. CPS is not agreeing on letting me bring my kids back with me until the home study is done which is injustice to my children and I. I am fighting this but even if the Judge does say you know, you did your job you can take your kids home. I think my children and I deserve Justice on taking off that child abuse charge off of my record and also my kids deserve to have a college savings bond of a good amount of money for pain and suffering because they had not been away from me longer than 2 weeks in their entire life! I have always been a single mother but do you think CPS is going after their worthless dead beat fathers? OH hell no they ain't! I am so upset I feel that if the government can't do their job then justice needs to be done and those people need to be punished! Also I don't think that Court dates should be changed for CPS just because they have failed to do their job. Let them go into court and look like idiots and put out the excuses on why they didnt do what they were supose to do! Because you know darn well that if I would go into court and not have my things done they would be asking why and chewing me out! NO one would change the court date for me.
Cross your fingers for me that my children get to come home with me this next week and these people get what they deserve for hurting my family!
Jendoecrash
Houston, Texas
U.S.A.
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