First let me say that i love my children, and all ways will. When me and penny first got together she was a drunk. And i worked 3 jobs at times to support her and her son who at the time she did not know who his father was, and if i was late getting home from work she would throw my clothes out on the lawn and tell me to leave. Over the 10 years that we were married she would go to the store and spend money that we did not have, including money that was for a side job to buy materials to do the job.
In our 2nd year of marriage she told me some thing that i have not told any one till now, she said that her first husband had her have sex with their dog, and she said that she liked it and she was afraid that i would not love her because of it. Later in our 5th year of marriage with all the stuff we were going through, her spending all of our money and hitting the kids, (one day she broke her hand by hitting one of the kids, and i can prove this.)
I made her go to a therapist to see if he can help. Her diagnosis was, bipolar disorder, paranoia schizophrenia tendencies, and multi-personalities traits. So he put her on meds and she leveled out for awhile, but at times she would stop take them because she said that she was better, but that would be the times that she would spend all of our money, or should say my money because i was the only one working. The rest of our marriage was the same as the first half, so i began to go to the bars and drink.
Then came the last day i would spend in the same house with her. She started to fight with me, and she told me to leave, and i asked her does it matter that i do not want to go. And at that i looked in to the eyes of my children as she said "no, just leave." and i can see what our fighting was doing to our kids, and i did not want that kind of life for them. So i moved out and moved to FL. And yes she came to FL and she had no money, so i paid for them to stay motel.
Then she came to my dad's house and started a fight, at that i asked her to leave so i can go to work. Then she told me that i would not see the kids ever again. And till this day i have not been able to visit with my children, i have tried to e-mail them, but all i got back was e-mails from penny saying that they did not want to hear from me. The reason she is not letting me visit with my kids is because of religious beliefs. Even to the point of when oldest died (he was only 16) i had to find out from a friend of the family. And even then she would not let me speak with the 2 that were left.
And back when we got divorced, she got a credit card in my name and ran it up to the point that years later i got a letter from the card company asking about it. And i found out that this is identity theft and i can have her put in jail for it. But that is one thing that i would not put my children through, although i would get the kids from her. But i respect my kids to choose the life that they want. But the one thing that i don't think that penny knows is that if you deny visitation, you can not get child support. And the only reason that she is doing this report, and all the other web sites about me is because i have found a great woman to spend the rest of my life with. And she is mad that i am happy with with my new wife and my new life.
All i am trying to do here, is to let people know that there is two sides to ever story.
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