We all have to support our kids, even after a separation. That is the purpose of the FOC. This is a story of how, in my case, the FOC rules only benefits one parent.
When the wife and I separated back in 1985 the FOC was notified and I was given a court date to appear. When I got to the hearing the wife told FOC she didn't need my money, that she worked at Wayne State and made good money. I was unemployed and, due to separation, qualified for welfare assistance. The referee told her “it isn't up to you to decide if Mr. Beaty pays or how much…you filed for divorce with kids in Michigan and the state decides.” I was ordered to pay $20 a week times 3 (3 kids). At that time welfare only gave me food stamps. I was unable to pay and that started the arrearages.
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