I left my husband (Christopher Erben) with our 1 year old son last year. Before I moved out, he said he would hide so he wouldn't have to pay child support to me. And this he has done. There is a court order that he has to pay $335 a month, which he did two times and his mother paid the last time-4 months ago.
I didn't know when I moved out that I was a couple weeks pregnant. Chris doesn't care! He doesn't ask to see his first son or ask how he is doing. He last saw his eldest son in March. Doesn't ask about our second son. Hasn't even met him yet. I doubt he even remembers what his name is (I was able to get ahold of him twice since his son was born 2 1/2 months ago).
Chris told me back in April that he was moving to Florida. And that's what his family keeps telling me.in the court order, he is supposed to tell me where he moves to and where he gets a job within two days. He had a cell phone, but the contract ended in September. I have no idea where he really is, where he works, and have no way of contacting him. The only "place" I know to contact him is on MySpace, but I am blocked from him. A friend of mine has seen him at his parents house in Canton, North Carolina.
He has a warrant out for his arrest for not showing up to court in August for non-payment of child support. I think this is the main reason that no one wants to let me know where he is. He hasn't changed his address with the post office, so looking him up online, he shows up in Canton.
Up until recently, the child support website for NC says that the processing status for the case has said 'delinquent'. Now it says 'locate'. The only thing is that I have no way to help DSS track him down. All I know is that he moved to Florida to live with his pregnant girlfriend.
I think that is kind of funny. When we met, he said he didn't want any kids. And now he has three. Of course, I heard a rumor that this mystery girl is pregnant with twins-ohh, I love karma! I just wish he would start paying the child support he agreed to with the court, visit his kids when he is around, and meet his second son! It's really unfair to them.
If any one has any idea about where he is, PLEASE tell me!
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