I met this man on the internet through a friend. He seemed nice but i was dealing with the a health issues and 2 family deaths and 2 family illnesses. My estranged husband of three years was never around and everytime i logged on my computer this man had sent something nice to me. We finally talked more and more. I do not trust easily but he became my confidant, my supporter, the love of my life. I thought i was safely handling this as it took over 2 years before i decided to meet him in person. We met.instant karma (or so i thought). We met again and again.
His wife filed for divorce after our first meeting. I am a very honest person caught him in a couple of lies and he told me because of his wife he had to lie and wanted me to help him get over that because he didn't want to hurt our relationship. We talked about our future. This man held me and loved me and talked to me and was there for me
During all and i truley believed he loved me. It was decided while i was on a six month sick leave after my father died that i would move two states away to where he lived and we would be together while i went through disability, grief reaction after father's death, divorce and we would marry. We discussed what we wanted for the future. He even had my name put on his truck window. We found an apartment and always before we took turns paying and with the rental of a bed and the apartment with all utilities it would cost $87 each a week.
I drove down on a sunday stayed in hotel which he stayed with me and he was going to take vacation on monday for us to find apt. He didn't said boss wouldn't let him off. Alone in an unknown state, i found us an apartment and went to rent a center and rented a bed i was exhausted mentally and physically and needed rest. It was love it was my dream come true to have someone to share with me everything and to hold me and love me and be so kind and there for me. I had abandoned my family my job everything for him because i needed this in my life.
For the month of may which i moved there on may 5 i spent 1,422.04 and he contributed 463.28. For the month of june i spent 1,682.62 and he contributed 320.96. It continued to get worse and worse. He had his own payroll savings that he put 100.00 a month in but couldn't contribute to us.
He introduced me to his mom dad and children whom i adored. I was a part of the family. My attorney needed 700.00 to start the divorce. Joey told me he would give me the money from his savings, he never did. Now he says i drug my feet and didn't divorce that is why he left me and another one was because i have a health condition and was on medication. He even wrote checks on my account to his wife for childrens needs out of my money and only deposited once or twice because i said something to him about it. He has a horrible temper.
He would buy things, tapes, ebay items, personal pleasurable things before he would help pay bills or even buy his children something to eat. When i left he moved back in with his mom. He lived there from feb until may and never once conributed to the household in any manner of cleaning up, or financially. Here i am disabled and he drives me two states away to doctor apointments which resulted in injections. When i left to come home it was due to my six months sick leave expiring and i was coming home to extend that sick leave into long term disability. I am required to take narcotics etc in order to stand the pain and to function however my employer did not want me working there on these drugs. I will be in pain the rest of my life and i found comfort in the arms of a liar, cheater, female user and he is seeking more victims.
I received email while there from a woman to joey asking where he was at she hadn't heard from him. I responded to her email and told her in case joey didn't answer that i wanted her to know that he was living with someone and i was sorry that she had to find out this way but i would see if he wouldn't write her back. He refused. He told me that she was a psycho chasing him around a program called winmix that she destroyed peoples relationships and was always telling everyone she was with him that is when he came to the chat program liVve to get rid of her. I told him he should tell her the truth and be rid of her once and for all. He refused. So i told him i had told her.
Well in comes another email informing me that joey had been calling and writing her. I deleted it heard no more from her until one week after i returned home to get a divorce and return to marry this man start a life with him. She sent me email to say i was a liar and that she was calling her man to set things straight when i called joey he said she had called him and his only mistake was calling her back to talk to her thought she was a friend and he told her all about me how much in love we were and were going to get married. He was sorry he should have never called her back but said he thought she had changed.
I came home in august - second week. During all this time babybunny and i spoke on phone etc and we found out that he told us similar stories. She sent me chat information as she wanted to get him online to get him to write it so she could send it to me since i provided proof of his and my relationship with photos of my name on the truck, our checking account, us being together, our web site, etc. He had told her that he felt sorry for me as my husband was a drug addict and he offered me a room to stay in while i was trying to figure out what to do that i was a psycho a floosey and a nut case on drugs. He sent me packing home to my husband when he had taken all he could with my irresponsibilities etc. She produced this to me yesterday.
Joey denied everything but continued to back away. We rarely talked anymore. He told me he hadn't had time to get his internet connection up and running. On the 10th i received some of his mail. We had shared same account while in ky. He set up for me to use his internet connection and even made my own mailbox when i returned home i just put in a filter to forward to my new email addy. On sept 10 i received multiple emails that belonged to joey all were from date sites. There were 15 or more of them.
I thought omg what is going on. During the time i was home, i have had to go on long term disability, have seperated from husband divorce to be final soon and working on liquidating assets and starting a home based business. Had it not been for the error and the lady from newfoundland i would still be pushing myself to go back to this creature. This is what he said to her about me: (now I am an educated person with a career - he works for the city in the sewer plant)
These are text messages to my cell phone from him: 08/13/06 8:15 P.M. Baby im not avoiding you i texted you and left a message and another text this morning for goodness sake. 08/13/06 8:59 P.M. Baby I told you I made a mistake in answering the voice mail im in love with you 08/13/06 9:25P.M. Sweet pea im in love with you 08/13/06 10:08 P.M. Sweet pea im in love with you I want you I told you everything and thats the truth. 09/07/06 6:32 A.M. And I will always love you too. If you leave me then i'm done and will be alone from here on. It is either you or no one. 09/07/06 2:26 P.M. I'm just going to wander through this world alone no more hurting anyone or disappointing them by me being me the world is better off without me. 09/08/06 2:14 P.M. Are you are wanting more of me was I that good baby make your pussy purr. 09/11/06 7:56 A.M. I can't answer how i feel now with all that has happened i don't know what to feel or say.
Conversation with woman from newfoundland (8/28 8:29: 14 AM): i think he might be back on the internet because he tired to ad me to yahoo but i have him blocked me (2:59: 33 AM): (9/6 10:42: 57 AM): oh really he was the only one i was ever with on here and he kept @$# up then coming back trying would allways come back begging saying i reliase i love you now my response: he said that he didnt' talk to me until after i got over being mad about what you were saying and that i was falling for it (9/6 10:45: 15 AM): he was doin=g the same to me saying shes a psyco don;t listen to her me (9/6 10:45: 35 AM): that's what he said to me about you that you were a psyco-the same comment (9/6 10:45: 44 AM): and he called me said she won;t leave me alone allways texting me and i told her to f* off he called me this moring i said don;t wanna talk and hung up.
Joey and newfie conversation she sent me.: joey perkins (9/5 7:37: 15 am): i love you very much if u come down baby u will see and i will promise to make u happy and love u for ever he said baby i told her i didn;t want her only u and she won;t stop texting me (9/5 7:55: 02 AM): yes redneckjoey perkins (9/5 7:55: 10 AM): I love you heart and soul will you marry me? I think I got hacked (9/5 10:56: 45 PM): is that u trying to add me again joey perkins (9/5 10:56: 51 pm): yes (9/5 10:56: 54 PM): ok 9/5 10:57: 06 PM): look at this ok joey perkins (9/5 10:57: 23 PM): psycho got me again and put you on ignore (9/10 6:15: 48 PM): but she says the same thing (9/10 6:15: 59 PM): that ur asking her to hry and come back marry her joey perkins (9/10 6:16: 12PM): she is saying that sugar if i wer going to marry her then why is she back home? And that u nver called me at all that i;m crazy she even said u said i loved doing that shit that on winmx i did it just to brak ppl up joey perkins (9/10 6:17: 09 PM): omg: joey perkins (9/10 6:17: 21 PM): baby I told her I met you on winmx: (9/10 6:17: 29 PM): ok joey perkins (9/10 6:17: 37 PM): sweetheart (9/10 6:17: 50 PM): and she said u are still deying u calling me joey perkins (9/10 6:18: 28 PM): just dont listen to her she confused me all the time with her mind games why do you think shes back with her husband I told her to go back home and stay there joey perkins (9/10 6:18: 51 PM): I texted her and told her I was marring you joey perkins (9/10 6:19: 09 PM): and to leave me alone and also to stop bothering you I have told her the whole time I was in love with you and that I want to be with you why do you think she is doing all of this i hate it to. I know she is filling your head with doubt that lying 2 faced bimbo I havent even talked to her this weekend shuga we have been together for 6 years im not losing you I dont want to be another minute with out you you are the one i want to be with for the rest of my life you are my life I wish you could see into my eyes then you would know beyond the shadow of a doubt I mean what I say (9/10 6:33: 36 PM): u still there joey perkins (9/10 6:33: 42 PM): yes (9/10 6:33: 54 PM): whats wrong joey perkins (9/10 6:34: 01 PM): nothing why (9/10 6:34: 09 PM): u just went quiet joey perkins (9/10 6:34: 56 PM): im just aggrivated over what this nut is trying to do to us (9/10 6:35: 05 PM): can i send her this showing that u love me not her? If u don;t want me to i won;t but would like joey perkins (9/10 6:37: 55 PM): no don't i said i have told her I'm going to get married to a woman from newfoundland and she still goes on and on you are the love I want in my life and the only one and I wont be denied that love and i'm not letting some 2 bit floosey stop me from my happiness you come to me newfie and we will love each other for the rest of our lives.
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What he was doing was playing me and playing her and signing on date sites at the same time. I do not know how many other women are involved. Newfie and i called each other on phone and we talked about this and she has stomach cancer and he seems to prey on women that are ill. The sites i am aware of that he is on is yahoo, cupid, true, bbpeople meet, divorcedpeoplemeet, singlesnet, loveandseek, and who knows where ever else. I am $6000 in debt due to him and he owes me half of that. He also has jewelry, cologne, furniture, etc that he literally stole from me. He even picked up my mail and never sent to me so he has united states mail of mine. He is on the hunt advertising in several date sites to do the same thing to more women.
According to newfie in the six years i was the fifth woman he did this to her knowledge with. He has not talked to me. He text messaged me this morning that he felt i was going on with my life without him so he went on with his. He said i was welcome to come have cock but nothing else. I have lots of pictures of his infamous cock. I hate what this man has done to me. He has pushed my health further downward and destroyed my hope my trust. Someone help me find a way to stop him to try to regain my dignity my money to pay for my medical expenses.
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