Sergio Tupac Uzurin is a sociopath, not to be trusted with any political cause, collaborative effort or personal relationship. I write this protecting the identity of my dear friend who fears the violent retaliation he threatened her with. She has confided in me for many years since we went to school together and I take the chance of losing her confidence by reporting this.
However, if this goes unreported, it will continue, and he will continue violently exploiting women undetected. I've seen my friend's body bruised, her face bloodied and streaked with tears and finally, about a month ago, I saw her wrist cut DEEPLY in 5 places.
I don't know where to start describing the physical and emotional abuse that occurred. And there's not even enough space here to do it justice. This poor woman, duped into believing that Sergio loved her and already suffering from serious depression, invited him into her heart and home. After doing so, he exploited her every weakness in such a way as to make her appear a raving lunatic and take away all her credibility.
She, prior to dating this boy pig, was honest about her depression and emotional sensitivity. She made every effort to ensure he understood exactly how bad it was and even tried to talk him out of dating her until her sadness cleared up.
None of this mattered though, because he saw an opportunity. She, being a poor recent graduate, was in desperate need of a cheap place to live somewhere near her job. He offered this, thru his social connections and assured her that even if things did not work out between them, her living situation would not be disrupted.
She was living in a room the size of my closet crawling with toxic black mold, which made her very ill, for 100 a month plus utilities. I know this sounds cheap, but when you consider the broken toilet pipes dripping sewage onto her head as she relieved herself, its not. Furthermore, during the time she lived there, money and belongings disappeared in suspicious ways.
The person in charge of maintaining the building was a member of Sergio's fraternity and fixed the dripping sewage problem by nailing up particle board! These pube faced children forced her to clean up THEIR disgusting kitchen and bathroom messes, even when she had open wounds, by trashing the common areas of the lower apt where she lived, rather than their own. There were literally maggots mashed into the carpet and some black spotted substance that killed all her houseplants. He would use half the roll of toilet paper to wipe his ass, clogging the toilet and causing it to overflow repeatedly.
Whenever she would confront these boys about anything, they would try to intimidate and confuse her. This effectively gave my despairing friend a full time, unpaid, den mother job. She slaved away trying to make the place sanitary and livable while Sergio went out drinking every night in order to sleep with other women and make her feel even more horrible. He'd threaten to kick her out, knowing that she had nowhere else to go. Every time she saw me she asked about people seeking roommates anywhere she could conceivably still commute to work, desperately wanting out of both the house and the relationship. She even went to her family for help in getting out of 242, and during a fight told him of her intention to move out with the help of her brother and stepfather.
When Sergio failed to intimidate her, he threatened your family is nothing but white trash, that I could make disappear in a second and hit her in the face. He had her convinced that nobody liked or cared about her but him and even told her to kill yourself already, so I can have your job/stuff and leave your ugly body on the curb with the garbage on many occasions. Sergio pushed her inch by inch to suicide everyday, unknown to even his frat brothers, when someone took notice of the commotion, he'd pretend to be stopping an attempt.
When she finally succeeded in getting a second job to get her out of the house more, he violently prevented her from showering before work. (She hadn't bathed in over a week or 2) On her first day of her new job, he blocked her entrance to the bathroom, hitting and shoving her over an electric bill dispute, refusing to leave the bathroom so she could shower, he slammed her against the back wall then to the floor, ripped the shower curtain off the rack and shoved his phone in her face forcing her to view all the coaxed and re-contextualized text messages and voicemails she ever sent him. Nothing can describe the helplessness she felt, or even that I felt, in being unable to free her from this power hungry sociopath. Now my friend is out of that hell hole and starting on the road to recovery, still traumatized, she refuses to date.
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