We lived together and he moved out with out any notice leaving the entire amount of the lease break/contract to me, ($1499.99). He left me to pay the last electric bill which was $130.00. I didnt have time to find a roommate or anything and was forced to give up my apartment, I couldnt afford it by myself (he had encouraged me to sign a 2-year lease just prior to all of this).
I had no where to go because I had a dog that he refused to help me with (even though he was allowed big dogs at his new apartment). Lucily I started talking to an old friend by pure luck around the time all this was goin on and was able to find a place for my dog and I.
This person owes me about $7,000 for a motorcycle that he agreed to pay and did not. He was not able to finance it and I was and he said that he would finaly have something to help him ease stress and be happier. He said that he would take on another job or do what ever it was that he had to to take care of the payment as well as insurance.
I let him drive my car to work while I walked. He put several thousand miles on my vehicle. On several occasion he didnt have enough money for gas to drive my car to work and I would allow him access to my account for lunch/gas.
I trusted this person and would let him do things as he wished... If he wanted to go to a house party with his friends, I was ok with that. Once I started talking to my long lost friends he would get upset that I would go over to a party or to hang out or what not. He started going out only with his friends leaving me to stay home and wait. He was overly sensitive and if I wasnt at the door to greet him when he came in he would accuse me of not being happy to see him. If I was at the door to greet him he would accuse me of not being excited or happy enough to see him. He hardley helped around the house and I gave up trying to clean up after him.
He promised to pay my broken cingular contract bill if I agreed to switch to Verizon. He owes me half of the Verizon bill that I cant pay.
He wanted to get cable and now there is an outstanding cable Bill that he owes me. He promised that if we got cable he would bu me a computer and get internet for me. Well, he bought a nice computer but took it when he left me with all this other stuff.
My mother took out a loan to help us pay some things and he promised and even gave his word to her as well as me that he would help pay it back. I am stuck with that payment as well. He has givin me no money towards it since May.
I had no where to put my washer and dryer and told him that he can give me $200 for it or I can sell it. It took my washer and dryer with out giving me any money.
Just a few weeks before all this happened we had to take out 4 cash advances to pay our rent because our jobs were slow. I had to pay back all 4 of them by myself along with all the other bills hat month, he gave me no money for that because he was to busy paying for the down payment on his own truck and apartment.
When I ask him about the money he owes me and his plans he tells me that I am constantly bugging him and he dont have it. Now he wont return my phone calls or messages. Go figure.
This person was supposed to marry me. He promised me numerous times that he would help get all this straight once we were able. Yes - I trusted him and I knew that bad times happen but I thought when they got better financially that instead of leaving me with everything that he would help me get everything straight then plan a wedding. I have great credit before I got with him and now my life is ruined for the next several years as I have to scrape and struggle alone to fix what he helped me get into.
THIS PERSON IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED. I put all my trust and love and faith into this person and this is how I am repaid? Dont let him happen to you. This is the same crap he supposedly pulled on his ex-wife. Once he cant use you any longer he leaves with no intention of repaying the mess he got you in. He seems like a great charming wonderul person at first.
I have tried to get an attorney because he owes me some where around $12,000 (no that is not a typo), but they want thousands of dollars up front, and from where I am stuck paying all of Don's bills I can barely afford to pay rent.
He owes several people money. He seems like the type of person that you can trust BUT HE IS NOT. He is a salesman. If you shake hands with him count your fingers afterwards.
If you date this person - DO NOT combine finances. Keep your everything seperate from his. He is a very big spender... And he is not afraid to spend when the bills are due.
I hope this helps some one out there, and that they dont get suckered in as I did. Pay attention to the red flags. They are there for a reason.
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