This is hard for me to write because its so sad, it happen to my daughter and I could do nothing about it at the time my hands were tied, It started back in 2008 when my daughter told me that the Doctor told her that she had breast cancer, my daughter told me that when she took the mammogram that she felt something bust in her breast, I told her I would not have taken it, I lived in Los angeles at the time and it was hard for me to get up there to tell her to get a second opinion before she allow the doctor to cut her breast off, she wouldn't listen at the time because she was grown and married and her husband and in laws had influenced her into getting her breast remove. A whole year she suffered, I tried to intervene with alterative medicine, because I had been through something similar, and that started me on green tea, herb's, her husband listen for a while and would buy these things and the cancer did go into recession, but they would still go to these Doctor's and Hospitals, labs, Mar"s, get chemotherapist radiologist and that would only start the cancer to spread and the radiologist killed her cell's to the point that the herbs and other health products would go right through her, her whole inside were
rearranged, she was just on drugs from the doctor's her whole system was messed up, it was a loosing battle, it was just me against a whole city and her husband and inlaws which were no help at all.
I even suggested to have her move to a cancer hospital, loma linda, UCLA. Or other specialist, because that small town doctor's did not have the experience or the equipment to handle this case. They were just milking her insurance, I use to live up there and I was in the same hospital and it has not change its worse than ever! My daughter was not only suffering physically but emoitional by the things the family and doctor's were feeding her, she had told me her husband told her to go on and die, he and the kids would be alright, thats because he had insurance on her also, back to my suggestion of better
treatment, the excuse was that it was to far for the husband and family to travel and the insurance wouldn't cover all, even after I offer to pay for part of the treatment! My daughter lost her right breast that wasn't the worse her right arm grew three times the size of her, my sister was at victorvalley college at the time and she knew a lady that had that condition it's a name for it, the woman at the time said she could help her, but when she called she ask my daughter was she a christian and what church did she attend! People never seem to stop amazing me what a let down my daughter had I her to not let that bother her because the woman had problems of her own, karma has a way of coming back to people good or bad. My daughter she was very pretty but after the doctors, hospitals, chemotherapist, you notice the word che-mother - rapist, not good violation code! At the end the husband would lie and said my daughter was doing good when she was in the hospital, just to keep me from coming up there, at the time my daughter was having a house ready to be built, her husband and her brought the land and put a trailer on the property in Lucern valley a very far off desolate place you recall I wanted to move her to loma linda which was about the same distance! I went out there and stayed with her she was alone I don't know how long, but her kids my grandchildren did show up and I made sure she was ok and the daughter did not leave her alone again, I called the adult abuse on the the husband and he did move her to his mother house in oak hills, we had words later after she went back into the ICU, I later call the hospital and the applevalley staff told me that I had to have a pass word to talk to my daugher, or visit her and to even get any information about her, the family, my daughter's husband had me barred from the hospital! The last time I saw my daughter before that she lost her hair, her arm was large, the drugs had her in and out she was in pain, she died and the family hurried a quick funeral for her because it was the time of their family thanksgivng day, which was more important than his wife death and how she helped him build what number five house! I can't remember a day my daughter didn't work so she could please this man who always competed with his family for material recognition! And when she was sick and no longer any use to him after the hospitals and doctor's finish the job he started, she wanted to go, she was only holding on to help work to build this last house in lucern valley, I told her to let it go, and in her own words she told me that this would be her last move, little did she know how true it was for her. I just found out the house was built and the husband remarried, living in the house my dead daughter's paid for with her insurance, she left to children behind, who are 22 my grandson and granddaughter 19, who I haven't seen since that day!!
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