Imagine my horror when I went to a used book store and was fumbling throught the used videos and low and behold there is an entire selection of videos with my husbands face and "NAKED BODY" on the cover. These - I'm sure you have figured out by now, are ADULT FILM VIDEOs. Oh yeah, I was mortified, as was my pastor from my church and all the ladies from my bridge club. I grabbed as many as I could and threw a 100 bill at the clerk and ran out of the store on 29th and Adams in Topeka KS. Oh Lord have Mercy. WOWEEE! I always wondered how a human could be so adept at what he did behind closed doors, yet, he seemed so emotionally detached. Well, I know now, he was an adult film star. He also was a male stripper. I divorced him imediatly in 2001. The problem now is the royalties from his films keep coming in and the IRS requires that the money be accounted for.in doing so, I had to note where the money came from as in the royalties. The money I got from him in seperate maintanence and alimony (which came from his royalties) from our divorce went to our church (some of it). So now the problem is his indiscresionary past as a porn star and the money from it has cast a negitive veil on my church and how we aquire our money. Now our church is under close scrutiney. I had to finally move to another state. I had a good reputation, a college grad, a sorority girl, a member of many community groups, a mother of 2, a daughter of a community figure. So now he fancies himself as still being the man he once was, and I saw where he is advertising his stripper servivces but had been reported for not showing up and that he sings in a church choir in his other life.
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