I was never paid for the vinyl ordered and then his wife accused me of flirting with her husband. Her husband saw my pic on my website and made a comment about it saying my husband was lucky. See emails below
She accused me of sending him multiple pictures of myself and I never did. I told her that he saw the one on my website and this is what she said.
From: Carla Yzaguirre [mailto: [email protected]]
Sent: Friday, October 05 17:20 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: thanks
Thank you for clarifying that up for me. I saw the pic, short dark hair ect... And the message that went back and forth. I know he asked for the pic and called you cutie and stuff. He did the same with me. I have been with him for 10 months now but most of the time he is gone. We are suppose to get married and we live together. It just really screws me up when flirting and pics are going back and forth on a professional business transaction. I truly do not understand that and I know for sure that if I were to do something like that he would leave but not before he would do some real damage to the other person. So I have to ask... Why would you send a man a pic of you and have conversations like you did... Which I read yours too, especially if you have someone and you know he does too? I know there is nothing there and I know you both were just flirting and messing around... But I guess it bothers me that he feels that is ok and you fell that is ok. No one needs preaching that is for sure in todays world but all I know is that I was married for 21 years with a man that I started dating when I was 10. We had been together for 31 years before my three kids told me he was cheating on me with a 22 year old. I forgave him and then again my kids caught him with my best friend. Just because we are not insight and not there all the time there has to be trust... I got burned and my kids crushed over stupid sexual wants. Now I find Travis who swears he would never do that to me especially since his wife of 20 years that he dated since they were 15 did the same thing. He caught them. He left and he is still hurt. But I would never hurt someone in that way. Katie I am just asking you think before you flirt and send your pic out. It can hurt something that a couple has tried to build for a long time. And especially if kids are involved. Life is hard and boy is it hard being 40 and single and trying to trust people again. But I knew that was you in the pic especially since I had just read all the emails back and forth. I also have my doubts at times about trust at all. I would like to be able to start my life without interference of other women stepping in. If that is ok with you. Please think about what I said. If I explode then I am sure it will be over between Travis and me, but if I look at the bigger pic a 49 year old man talking to a young girl and she flirting back making him feel wanted and all that well all I can say that I have been there and done that with my ex. I know how it ends. I just feel sorry for the kids. They do not understand even though mine were 15 and 16 and 9 all they wanted was to save me, but now they wished they could take it back so he and I could still be a family. I am trying to start a new family now... Please just think about women like me... And think before you flirt and send pics. I know it is not all your fault, but think about us... You will be in the same boat one day I promise. Go through me from now on about the money owed to you. He lied when I saw the pic and said it was not you. So I now know he did want more and he knew what he was doing was wrong or he would not of lied. It hurts. I just want him to love me... I guess I am finding out that does not exist. If you were here I would take you out for a drink and just talk. I am not mad. Just so hurt it happened and he lied. Thanks for telling me the truth. Please do not call him any more. I will pay you with my and the kids money. I will take care of it.
Thanks so much,
Carla Yzaguirre
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My response
I am truly sorry that you feel that way. You have to understand that I work in the car industry and all men act like that. It is nothing new and they mean nothing by it, I honestly dont even notice it as flirting. I honestly just thought he wanted to know who he was talking to.in this business, people often want to know that they are talking to a real person and it's not unusual for me to get requests for photos, both from men and women. If you think that your partner was flirting with me, that's something that you'll have to bring up with him. On my end, there was no flirtation happening whatsoever. I am a very friendly person, something that all of my friends know me for, and if you knew me personally, you would not have seen my emails as being at all flirtatious. My boyfriend is aware of all correspondence that took place between myself and your partner, and he feels no insecurity about it because he knows that I'm simply a friendly person and I mean nothing by it. I'm certainly not the type of person who would hurt someone else, and I'm very aware that cheating, whether over the internet or in person, is wrong.
Your partner sent me photos of his cars for later use on the website, he happened to be in one of them and if I remember correctly I asked him if that was him. He said yes, but I don't think he was purposely sending me photos of himself, he just happened to be in one.
As far as your trust issues go, I am sorry you were hurt in the past. If it would make you feel more comfortable to deal with me directly that would be fine with me. However, I still need to remind you that the payment is now 4 months overdue, and that the vinyl was sent out 4 months ago. The due date for payment was in July, and I have not received any of it. Therefore, this must be taken care of immediately. If I do not receive the payment in full by October 31, I will have to send this bill to a collections agency. I have mailed you another invoice with a self-addressed envelope enclosed. Please send it to me in that envelope to avoid any further complications.
If you have any further questions or concerns, feel free to contact me via phone or email.
Katie Karpetz
I still have not received anything.
Bonded-design
Edmonton, Alberta
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