I obtained this info from someone and felt this should be put on here: this is about a bad psychic reading experience my daughter had by Claudia Mcneely of askclaudia.com I wanted to share this as a cautious word of advice against having a reading done by a psychic.
They can be hazardous to your emotions and life. My daughter had a psychic love reading by the above a few years ago having to do with finding someone and why she never did.
In the reading my daughter was told and made to believe it was because: she was nothing men wanted to love and be with, it was all in her head anyone liked her, she got herself in trouble for assuming a guy liked her when he didn't just because he looked at her, that she had to be honest with herself about that, she wasn't willing to be friends, she expected too much from guys. She was scaring them away with her neediness and intensity, that she expected too much from guys, that no one wanted to be around her because she was needy, had to work on herself, and be honest with herself about all that.
My daughter never had the opportunity to date or had a boyfriend ever in her life. She's been hurt so many times and treated badly. It hurt her never having anyone, meeting anyone she could get to know, date, or a have a relationship, and I know that's hard to understand if you've never went through or experienced that yourself or how that feels.
Most women date until they find the right guy. My daughter would like to have relationships, love dating, boyfriends, once in her life like you or any other woman, since love is a part of life too. Knowing the above, the psychic also told my daughter when she came to her for help when wondering why she never found anyone and had yet to experience and have her first taste of love and dating and relationships because she would like to experience love once after being alone and never dating or having anyone or a relationship with a guy yet, as other young women only that: rejection is a part of life, and is not easy to take but is a part of life is like saying she had no right to hurt or feel bad that she never found anyone one, like other people do, when love is a part of life too and should be a part of hers also, and imply that she never found anyone because she was nothing men wanted to love and be with, or was scaring them away with her intensity or because she was needy and they didn't want to be around her and had to be honest with herself about that or tell her it was her fault she had gotten hurt for assuming they liked her just because they looked at her which meant they didn't like her and so got herself in trouble, as if she were a young woman getting herself pregnant, and then to tell her how after the psychic was married to someone else for 25 years that someone else came along for her, and not to say something positive like someone would come along for my daughter too, only that she had to work on herself or was needy, scaring men away, nothing they wanted to love or be with or was all in her head anyone liked her, and not to say anything positive or hopeful.
The above reading and what she told my daughter afflicted her every day, had that in her head all the time, made her feel bad about herself constantly, and affected her, her self-confidence in and kept her from trying to finally meet the right guy she could be with and who would love her just as she is. I knew about the reading because my daughter had talked to me about the things the psychic told her all the time and put herself down because of them when she was upset or felt bad about something or not having anybody.
When she felt bad she would repeat the above over and over to me and cut herself down and put herself down because of it. It got to the point where my daughter would say all the time, if she saw someone else with a guy, I guess they have someone and I don't because they are what men want to love and be with and I'm not and have to be honest with myself about that, or I wish I was what men wanted to love and be with so I could find somebody once in my life, or I guess no one ever told them rejection was a part of life, or I wonder how long they had to work on themselves to become what men want before they got that guy.
None of that is true about my daughter, but the above ideas put in my daughter's head made her think nobody ever did or would like her or that she'd never find anyone because of those ideas, which gave her constant emotional distress. That reading afflicted my daughter to the extent where she was always cutting and putting herself down, made her feel bad about herself, which wasn't right either, and too afraid to try to talk to anyone or meet someone who she could finally meet and get to be with and who would love her because she thought no one would like her because the psychic said she had to be something men wanted to love and be with, emphasizing the words love and with I was told, making my daughter think she wasn't already, and that no one wanted to be around her because she was needy.
If you didn't have to go through your life never dating anyone, having a boyfriend, or didn't have to be alone or lonely or hurt all your life, feeling bad about yourself, it's hard to understand why those ideas would cause emotional distress. But it did and it was real. Because of that distress, my daughter had and her only friend had both written to the psychic about how the reading continuously afflicted her over the last few years.
After that the psychic posted the following message to my daughter and apologize to anyone who say that on her web site: If this constant harassment of me continues I will report you to the authorities'.instead of apologizing to anyone who saw that and for having to put that on her web site, (who I believe should know how that got started in the first place and why, which was because of the emotional distress the psychic caused my daughter with the things she told her in that reading, and which would have to be told to the authorities because I'm sure they'd want to know the reason behind it), she should have at least apologized to my daughter for causing her the emotional distress from the things she told her in that reading first, instead of threatening to report her to the authorities if she didn't stop writing to her, because that reading afflicted my daughter to the extent where she was always cutting and putting herself down, made her feel bad about herself, which wasn't right either, and too afraid to try to talk to anyone or meet someone who she could finally meet and get to be with and who would love her because she thought no one would like her because the psychic said she had to be something men wanted to love and be with, emphasizing the words love and with I was told, making my daughter think she wasn't already, and that no one wanted to be around her because she was needy. And I'm sure the authorities would have liked to hear my daughter's side of the story.
I feel it was a good thing my daughter gave her name to let the psychic know who it was she affected so bad with that reading so she could put that message on there. But I believe the one and only person she should have been apologizing to was my daughter for the distress the psychic caused her. I don't think it was fair to let anyone think my daughter is a wicked person harassing this poor woman who did nothing to provoke it, when they should know the reason behind it and how the psychic affected my daughter with the reading she gave her, and the constant emotional distress she caused her with that reading.
I am not saying it was all right for my daughter or friend to write to her, but my daughter never would have written to the psychic if she hadn't told my daughter those things in the first place, and I know she only wrote to the psychic because the things she told her in her reading that emotionally and mentally affected her, the way it made her feel about herself. I believe writing to her was my daughter's way of letting her know that. And how my daughter had what the psychic told her in her head all the time.
The psychic also wrote to me to tell me she would sue my daughter if she kept writing to her. I don't know what she was trying to accomplish by doing that. She would sue my daughter or report her, and try to get some money out of her, and she would go on while my daughter still had what the psychic told her in her head and would still be affected by the things she told her and have the emotional distress she gave her.
Threatening to report or sue her wasn't going to stop the emotional distress she caused my daughter with that reading, that would have gone on. And I know the emotional distress she caused my daughter is the reason she wrote to her. I think it's a great thing for someone to do: to want to sue someone who is affected constantly because of something the person who wants to sue told the person they want to sue and made them feel and put in their head.
If she would have sued my daughter, I would have filed a counter claim If she would have sued her I would have sued her for the emotional distress she gave my daughter, which was why she was harassed' in the first place for medication to get over it. She could have apologize to me for the emotional distress she caused my daughter because I know how that reading affected her all the time, and thought she should accept some responsibility for why she wrote to her, which was because of the emotional distress she gave her with the things the psychic said in the reading, and which obviously started any writing she may have done, and wouldn't have written to her other wise, and should've been understood.
She should have assumed I would tell all of this to any authorities or lawyers the psychic may have reported my daughter to why she was harassed', because of how that reading of hers affected my daughter and the emotional distress she caused her because of it. I don't think it is a very nice thing for a psychic to first put someone through distress with the things they tell someone and then threatens to report them to the authorities if that constant harassment (the writing to let the psychic know how what she told her affected her everyday of her life), doesn't stop, or to threaten to sue them.
A caring or understanding psychic or person would have just said sorry my reading affected you the way it did and please stop writing to me about it, or to just write to me and tell me to tell my daughter to stop writing to her. It wasn't necessary for her to tell me she would sue her if she didn't stop, (the emotional distress didn't stop after that and she needed relief from that, and I could have wrote to the psychic and told her if the emotional distress she gave my daughter didn't stop I would sue her).
I don't know what kind of a person would do that. First she tells my daughter the things she did and causes her emotional distress, and then she is scaring her too. I wonder would it had been different if she suffered in silence and not let the psychic know at all how she suffered and was affected by her reading. I wonder if I had just written to her myself to tell her how my daughter was constantly affected by that reading and how it continued, would she have written to apologize.
I don't see how a person can say things that make someone believe them that causes them constant emotional distress and then all the person can say is if this constant harassment of me continues I will report you to the authorities then to write to me and tell me she will sue her if she keeps writing to her, when she had never apologized to my daughter or me for the constant emotional distress she gave my daughter, and didn't think about that or as that being the reason as to why she was being constantly harassed, I mean written to as to how and why the things she told my daughter affected her. That to me is like saying a psychic could care less if they ever say anything to anybody that affects them in a bad way or how it makes them feel all the time.
And it seems it's too bad if it does, but you can't let them know how it continues. They don't have to take any blame or responsibility for their actions and can get away with it. But if you write to them to let them know how they affected you, that's harassment and is going to report you to the authorities and sue you.
It works both ways. Could it be that psychic couldn't stand the fact that she caused someone such distress with what she said she had to threaten to sue her to deal with it? I also don't see how you can sue someone who is writing to you, or harassing' you to use her words if you are being harassed, written to only because you gave them the emotional distress that caused them to harass, write to you in the first place.
If someone causes someone emotional distress they should take responsibility for that, and how it affected them in life. I know my daughter never would have written to her in the first place if it wasn't for the emotional distress she gave her with that reading. People do a lot of things when they are hurting, like a cry for help I guess you could say.
And I think if you never went through that or went through life being treated bad or picked on by people because of the way you looked that affected you in your whole life and all you do and the way you feel about yourself, and how it affects your life, you have no idea what that is like unless you step in their shoes. I don't think a psychic as any idea what it is like or what it does to you when someone picks on you your whole life or treats you the way they do or says the type of things to you like she did, or how the things I mentioned affects you, along with the things you go through and experience.
But it's bad enough my daughter going through life being treated badly by people growing up and on, feeling bad about herself because of that, and the way she looked and guys being jerks to her all the time, and her own father not wanting anything to do with her, and her own God-mother picking on her and treating her like dirt because she is mixed, without someone saying to her that she is nothing men want to love and be with or be around or giving her that idea or putting it into her head and that no one ever liked you, and to be honest with herself about all of that. She got that in her head and then she's hurt so badly anyway her whole life and it just builds up.
My daughter missed out on dating and boyfriends through her teen-age years, 20's and on and felt like she has no hope of ever finding someone. Then she is told by the psychic it's because she's nothing men want to love and be with and tells her rejection is a part of life, and I know she has what the psychic told her in her head all the time. I think a psychic should be able to see how making someone they do a reading for believe they are nothing men want to love or be with or that nobody liked them would make someone feel or would affect someone when they have yet to find anybody for once in her life, and feel bad enough about that and themselves because of it, without the things a psychic tells you.
My daughter is still waiting for love, boyfriends, dating and relationships to be a part of her life. You can't enjoy your life when it consists of nothing but hardship loneliness financial struggles and problems as we always have, health problems and heartaches. That psychic should consider herself fortunate if she has never had those consistent problems and to avoid all that and being alone, never having someone, or facing being alone because she won't have a husband or kids in her old age someday, like my daughter fears.
It should be figured out the harassment of her was caused by the emotional distress she gave my daughter. I'm told she said that constant harassment of her was illegal. I think that should have been thought of before she gave my daughter the constant emotional distress.
Telling her that wouldn't stop the emotional distress she caused my daughter, which was unwanted. It seems like it's OK if you are under emotional distress because of what a psychic told you, but don't write to them to let them know how it affects you otherwise they'll sue you. They can tell you that, but ignore or overlook the constant emotional distress and how it affects your life and how it make you feel about yourself constantly. My daughter didn't threaten her life, but the things the psychic told my daughter affected her life.
What my daughter suffered because of what the psychic told her was pretty bad. She was constantly harassed because she told my daughter something that caused her emotional distress. I don't think she was being constantly harassed, she was being told how the things she told my daughter constantly affected her and made her feel and that's why the constant harassment of her continued, to put it in her words, because the emotional distress continued.
She thought she was being harassed, but she caused my daughter emotional distress first, which brought on any so called harassment. That shouldn't be OK to do to someone either I think. It should be understood the harassment, I mean writing continued because the emotional distress the psychic gave my daughter continued, and stop and think about that and why she was harassed, I mean written to about it.
I don't know how you can call someone writing to let them know how the things they told or put in someone's head affected them, and their life, which was why the person wrote to them, harassment. It wasn't that she picked her out for no reason. It has to be understood my daughter wrote to her all the time because she said things to her that affected her constantly in a bad way.
I feel she is to blame for being harassed, I mean written to. Things she said were what caused it. My daughter avoiding talking to guys because of what the psychic told her and trying to get over that.
I know how my daughter hurts has hurt and how lonely she is and has been all her life, and has tried to hurt herself because of that before. So I wonder what the psychic would think if my daughter would have been successful at killing herself partly because of what the psychic told her and put in her head. I wonder if she'd put that on her web site.
She accuses my daughter of harassment, (as if she was a wicked person singling her out for no reason or like she picked her out and was harassing her because of how she looked, talked or whatever, which was not the case, the way my daughter was harassed and picked on by people her life for no reason, when she treated my daughter no better than those people with the things she told her: not being anything men wanted to love and be with, it being all in her head anyone liked her, getting herself in trouble for assuming a guy liked her when he didn't just because he looked at her, it was her fault she got hurt, having to be honest with herself about that, which she put and cut herself down for all the time for, then making out her to be a bad person, which she is not), when the psychic is the one who started it with and gave my daughter constant emotional distress because of the things she told her. The psychic thinks she was harassed, but my daughter was under emotional distress the psychic caused her.
I can imagine it's not easy having those things in your head constantly. My daughter constantly felt bad about herself and put herself down all the time and had constant emotional distress because of the things the psychic told her in that reading, which is why she wrote to her and that was her way of letting the psychic know how they hurt and afflicted her all the time, and that shouldn't have been overlooked, and was important in stopping too.
The psychic could have asked her nice to stop writing to her instead of threatening to report her to the authorities and then to sue her, and that it wasn't fair to accuse my daughter of harassing her, and just because you say that word, doesn't mean it's harassment, when she caused her distress with and because she was so affected by the things the psychic told her in that reading constantly and which continued, and so was why she wrote to her, and not look at her side of it. Scaring her wouldn't stop the constant distress you caused her. It doesn't add up to it when she was only writing to let the psychic know how that reading afflicted her and constantly putting herself down because of it.
Things and people have hurt and treated my daughter bad her whole life for no reason and people don't care or understand why or how she feels or how it makes her feel. It was important for her to get help too, not to just get her to stop writing to the psychic about it. That wasn't hurting her.
She shouldn't have wrote to her, but it shouldn't be OK to put ideas like that into someone's head that affects them so bad or makes them feel so bad about themselves all the time. You shouldn't have to feel so bad about yourself because of what someone said or did to you or makes you feel, like with the emotional distress the psychic caused my daughter with the ideas she gave her in that reading, that you want to kill yourself.
My daughter is still waiting for some to come along for her and fears she will end up alone at 57 and 77 with no husband or kids because she believes she is nothing men want to love and be with because of what the psychic told her, but she is facing being homeless again for the 3rd time in her life in a few weeks. But it wasn't like my daughter was a malicious person and not fair of the psychic to accuse my daughter of harassing her as if she were a malicious person, which she wasn't, picking the psychic out for no reason at all, but was writing to her out of hurt, and to let her know how that reading afflicted her, which was in a bad way, and should be taken into consideration, and thoughts were why the psychic didn't have anything to say about the distress she caused her and didn't seem very sorry for or care about that.
I'm not saying it was OK for her to write to her all the time, but it shouldn't be OK that a psychic can give those ideas to someone, but not to say anything about it or you can't, then that is harassing them. If it was a reading that had a positive affect or influence she was writing to let her know about, that would be different. The writing continued and was constant because the emotional distress the psychic caused my daughter with the ideas she gave her was constant and continued. You might say who is the psychic be telling someone the things she did or that telling her the things she did makes her as much of a bad person for telling my daughter things that afflicted her so bad emotionally and mentally as she was for writing to the psychic, which was out of hurt to let her know how it afflicted her and was the only reason my daughter would write to the psychic and was no other reason she would.
The psychic obviously didn't think she was a bad person for telling my daughter that stuff, even though it afflicted her badly, so she shouldn't think my daughter is a bad person for writing to her, (which was because of the emotional distress the psychic caused her), because she isn't. And so after sharing this experience, I hope those of you considering having any kind of reading done will be cautious on using the services of a psychic in the future.
Of course the psychic wanted me to remove this site, obviously because she was afraid of people seeing it and finding out about the truth. Obviously I made it because of the emotional distress she constantly caused my daughter with that reading and didn't want that ignored/overlooked/wanted that understood.
And my daughter was only writing to her because of the emotional distress she caused her with that reading in the first place to let her know how that reading affected her and was the only reason she was writing to her, which was her way of letting her know it. And there was no other reason she would. But the psychic didn't seem to get, see, or understand that, or take into consideration how the things in that reading affected her and made her feel about herself.
She thought I was slandering her. Well, she did post a message to her on her web site that she'd report her to the authorities if that constant harassment of her didn't stop, when she only writing to her as stated above. And then apologize to people who saw that for having to post it as if my daughter were an evil person harassing' her for no reason at all.
I wanted people to know the reason behind it and my daughter's side of the story and about the distress she caused her with the things the psychic implied in that reading to the extent and got to the point where my daughter would always say, if she saw someone else with a guy, I guess they have someone and I don't because they are what men want to love and be with and I'm not and have to be honest with myself about that, or I wish I was what men wanted to love and be with so I could find somebody once in my life, or I guess no one ever told them rejection was a part of life, or I wonder how long they had to work on themselves to become what men want before they got that guy.
She put herself down because of that when she was upset or felt bad about something or not having anybody. When she felt bad she would repeat the above over and over to me and cut herself down and put herself down because of it. What the psychic told my daughter afflicted her every day, had that in her head all the time, made her feel bad about herself constantly, and affected her, her self-confidence in and kept her from trying to finally meet the right guy she could be with.
Everything I said about my daughter in my web site and her life and the emotional distress she caused her is true. As I said in my site, most women date until they find the right guy. My daughter would like to have relationships, love dating, boyfriends, once in her life like the psychic or any other woman, since love is a part of life too.
Knowing that my daughter never had the opportunity to date or had a boyfriend ever in her life, and that she's been hurt so many times and treated badly, that it hurt her never having anyone, meeting anyone she could get to know, date, or a have a relationship, (and I know that's hard to understand if you've never went through or experienced that yourself or how that feels). But knowing the above, why did she tell my daughter when she came to her for help when wondering why she never found anyone and had yet to experience and have her first taste of love and dating and relationships because she would like to experience love once after being alone and never dating or having anyone or a relationship with a guy yet, as other young women only that: rejection is a part of life, and is not easy to take but is a part of life is like saying she had no right to hurt or feel bad that she never found anyone one, like other people do, when love is a part of life too and should be a part of hers also, and imply that she never found anyone because she was nothing men wanted to love and be with, or was scaring them away with her intensity or because she was needy and they didn't want to be around her and had to be honest with herself about that or tell her it was her fault she had gotten hurt for assuming they liked her just because they looked at her which meant they didn't like her and so got herself in trouble, as if she were a young woman getting herself pregnant, and then to tell my daughter how after she was married to someone else for 25 years that someone else came along for her, and not to say something positive like someone would come along for my daughter too, only that she had to work on herself or was needy, scaring men away, nothing they wanted to love or be with or was all in her head anyone liked her, and not to say anything positive or hopeful. Why would she tell her and make her to believe she didn't find anyone it was because she was nothing men wanted to love and be with, it was all in her head anyone liked her, she got herself in trouble for assuming a guy liked her when he didn't just because he looked at her, that she had to be honest with herself about that, she wasn't willing to be friends, she expected too much from guys.
And she was scaring them away with her neediness and intensity, that she expected too much from guys, that no one wanted to be around her because she was needy, had to work on herself, and be honest with herself about all that. The psychic hurt her and caused her very real emotional distress that with that reading, but she wasn't hurting the psychic by writing to her because of it, and the former is why this web site was published and what it was about.
And just because you call something harassment doesn't mean it is, especially if someone is writing to someone only because of something they caused that person. But she did write to me and tell me she'd sue my daughter if she didn't stop writing to her. Why did she do that?
Why couldn't she have just written to me and asked her to stop writing to her first? Why did she post that message? Did she remove that?
Why'd she tell her those things in that reading? Why didn't she apologize to my daughter instead of to whoever for posting that message for the distress she caused her? If I'd have written to her to tell her how bad it constantly affected my daughter myself, and she had never have written to her about it, would she have written to me to apologize?
I wonder. She right away had to contact me about the web site, and about my daughter writing to her, and to accuse her of harassment, to threaten to report her to the authorities, and to sue her, but did she contact me to apologize for the constant emotional distress she caused her which still continues? To me that proves a psychic can tell someone things like that in a reading, but not care how it affects someone.
All of that was in the web site, nothing about that was slanderous. There was no name calling. She is a psychic, obviously.
I used that term. What is wrong with that? I even said she wasn't a bad person.
She did cause my daughter emotional distress, she did scare her by threatening to report her to the authorities then to sue her. What was slanderous about/mentioning that? There was nothing slanderous in the web site, all of it was the truth, and if she had took the time to read the web site and understand what it was about she'd know that.
Obviously I made it because of the emotional distress she constantly caused my daughter with that reading and didn't want that ignored/overlooked/wanted that understood. And my daughter was only writing to her because of the emotional distress she caused her with that reading in the first place to let her know how that reading affected her and was the only reason she was writing to her, which was her way of letting her know it. And there was no other reason she would.
But the psychic didn't seem to get, see, or understand that, or take into consideration how the things in that reading affected her and made her feel about herself. She thought I was slandering her. Well, she did post a message to her on her web site that she'd report her to the authorities if that constant harassment of her didn't stop, when she only writing to her as stated above.
And then apologize to people who saw that for having to post it as if my daughter were an evil person harassing' her for no reason at all. I wanted people to know the reason behind it and my daughter's side of the story and about the distress she caused her with the things the psychic implied in that reading to the extent and got to the point where my daughter would always say, if she saw someone else with a guy, I guess they have someone and I don't because they are what men want to love and be with and I'm not and have to be honest with myself about that, or I wish I was what men wanted to love and be with so I could find somebody once in my life, or I guess no one ever told them rejection was a part of life, or I wonder how long they had to work on themselves to become what men want before they got that guy.
She put herself down because of that when she was upset or felt bad about something or not having anybody. When she felt bad she would repeat the above over and over to me and cut herself down and put herself down because of it. What the psychic told my daughter afflicted her every day, had that in her head all the time, made her feel bad about herself constantly, and affected her, her self-confidence in and kept her from trying to finally meet the right guy she could be with.
She should have to go through whole life alone, unloved with no one caring about her and see how she likes it. We'd like to just once have some happiness instead of sitting hurt, broken hearted, alone with no job to go to or money everyday of your life and now no home. It's not easy being rejected and hurt and treated like dirt by every guy you meet, unloved, never dating, having a boyfriend or anyone wanting to be with you, then be told it's cause your nothing men want to love and be with. She has no idea what that's like, or rejection is like to be telling anyone else that.
You think you finally meet someone who's going to love you and that you can be with, but something happens to keep it from happening and you are still sitting alone and without anybody. It's not fair. I guess she still hasn't had enough unhappiness and hurting in her life.
I wasn't trying to be mean with my site, I tried to make a point. I accomplished what I wanted to, so maybe now she knows how she made my daughter feel. And if she didn't get what this whole thing was about, I don't know.
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