Upon moving into the home of my husband when we married in Sept 1999 while putting clothes in the closet I ran across, very close up graphic teen pornography and notes on Chrysler financial note paper.
I said nothing at first, liking sex thought "oh good he is not the goodie two shoes he puts on in puplic". I did finally mention it casually, like "I heard you could get porn on the internet! Have you ever seen naked pitcures? He denied.
Time passed out great love and sex was getting worse. He had ok'ed me to leave my job and benifits so we could travel. Within 6 months his sex got awful and rushed, violence and cuting me down began as did severe control. I was heart broken.
His spending was out of control and he demandid I get a job. This story can be long I will try to condence it.
We were in love and enjoyed many of the same hobbies, but I was lonely and getting my self esteen ripped apart often.
He planned well in advance to ruien my life and was socking money away. I tried to prepare myself with getting into Real Estate. Weeks later the bomb dropped I had taken my lap top into work for them to set up on the network... It was full of porn. AI went home and looked in one place and found a stack an inch or more thick all from the computer, splattered with wet spots.
No one believes me a srink I saw from the Crysler network said I ws dilusional of his porn, i even showed him the photos and computer scans. This man is sick, he has left me with nothing, no home (a 600,000 home on the lake I spotted as a good deal) a 2000 Viper, boat, still has his job which he steels from all the time.
He also had a family member help beat me up badly on the arms, back and head. Then let me go and blocked me from the house. I was terrified, and hid in the car. He then called the police a second time and said "hurry up she is trying to run us over!"
I was badly hurt and also have a muscle condition Fibromyalgia, I could barely walk for the police, I begged for medical treatment, they promiced but never delivered me to the hospital.
I fell as they were pulling me faster than I could walk (this I told them) dangeling buy the cuffs in front of my body my wrists were hurt very bad and excessive forse was used.
I pleeded to them I had been the victom, they said shut up, and that was many times. I begged for tissue at the house they refused, over and hour still asking for tissue and suffering from severe sinus problems I had to release it to the floor and wall as well as my clothes.
I was treated brutally and I was not a flight problem as I could barely walk. I have medical records to cover all of this. They caused me to fall and I bumped and officer with the inside of my ankle as I had a slight bruse there the next day. I was set up by my husband and Dan Dowd for pure money motivation.
My life is ruiened, I have lost everything. My mother has been stuck with my care, I am disabled, but have no disability. My husband is the senior manager for the dodge dealers advertisers asociation, so with a big title and a nack for hiding his addictions he is winning. I have lost almost $100,000.00 to lawyers, now have a guardian.
I have been treated unfairly because the Judge able Judge Hallmark doesn't like me and thinks my husband is the poor abused husband. What has happened to me is beyond normal, one lawyer took me for $35-400,000 and did not even write up orders that were ok'ed in court (on tape) the next lied too and changed his whole tone after deposition of my husband who is a pathological lier, and a negotiater for a living.
I still have none of my posetions. I will get no settlement, 4 lawyers have their hand out. I feel the system sucks, I feel dead inside. No matter what I do it is a waste.
Help me
Debra
Farmington Hills, Michigan
U.S.A.
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