I am still kicking myself for falling for this eHarmony s* for the third time. I'v been using them for going on two years and out of the matches upon matches they send me I cannot get a date to save my soul. I am so fed up with other people's success stories... What is wrong with me that I can't get one mutual good match out of this site, am I destined to die alone in the basement with a hundred cats?
I hate the way the system is set up. You cannot pick your matches, they are sent to you by Big Brother, or ol' good dr Warren (God, he looks like a sleazy clone of Jimmy Swaggart.) Then you have to send these rounds of questions to your matches, which is so retarded, I mean would you go up to a stranget at a grocery store and say "Hi, how do you feel about committed long distance relationships?" WTF? And that is another thing. Your matches come from miles and miles away, even cross country.
Lastly your matches can close you out without compunction. The reasons can get downright ridiculous: "I don't feel the chemistry is there, " "I'd rather not say" "I'm taking a break from dating" Can you say lowered self esteem?
As a personal note the most shallow, rude inconsiderate men that exist in the world must sign up for eHarmony. One wrong answer or they don't like your picture and wham, you are closed out. I've heard the negative comments of men towards the site about plus size women and all I can say is water seeks its own level. I get much more play out of real life or other sites so I know the problem isn't me. EHarmony men are degenerate lowlifes as far as Im concerned. I'm so fed up with seeing the commercials on TV with the stereotypical single professional urban dweller (SPUD) male who drives a Mercedes and only dates worthless supermodel bimbos. It is ironic that this site is touted as "the most serious minded" but I beg to differ.
Worst yet is that you do not know who is actually a subscribing member or a cheapskate or a Free Weekender. The staff doesn't tell you that and this is deceptive. So to sum up do not fall for this sham. Class action lawsuit I am way ahead of you! Shut this site down NOW! Basically I paid $176.43 to have my self esteem lowered by loser men on the other side of the country who think they can do better. If I can prevent one person from joining eHarmony I will be happy.
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