I was looking for someone else when by chance i thought i would check on this person. Low and behold he had a complaint. I was surprised to find only 1. He has a whole line of victims waiting to get at him. Justin is right. Jimmy is mean, nasty, beligerent, alcoholic, and is a abusive and bad man. I would not say he is psycho but he is pretty close to it. Girls listen up. If you are considering dating this man. Stop. This man destroyed my life. When we started dating. At first he was nice and gave me a good amount of attention. When I met Jimmy I was over weight 50 pounds and had a low self esteem. Jimmy told me every day I was beautiful and pretty and he wished he had met me 30 years earlier. I thought he was everything I wanted in a man.Us overweight women have issues and it is was real easy for Jimmy to convince me that I was his ideal woman. I overlook everything about this man because I was in love and I thought I could change him. That did not happen.
It took him 3 weeks to convince me to move in with him and start a life. My mother told me not to move in with him. She said something was just not right about him and what man would want me moving in with him after only 3 weeks. I did not listen and lost everything before I realized what was going on. I thought when he called me to tell me he loved me 100 times a day was because he loved me. I did not think it was because he did not trust what I would say to other people when I was away from him and he needed to keep track of me.
When I got home he would drill me When I was finally able to get away from him I weighed over 500 pounds and all I cared about was getting away from him. I left everything that was worth anything to me and I heard later he sold it all for money. I say get away from him with my life and now I am normal weight and working to rebuild my life. I felt like I was held hostage in his life for over 3 years. I did not heed the warning signs and they were all there. 1 of his former women had sent me a warning letter about Jimmy with a copy of how to know if you are dating a psychopath. My family warned me but i was to in love and smitten over this guy and I would not listen to anyone. Then when he methodically alienated everyone in my life one by one and he had me all to himself the abuse started.
He had me so nervous and scared that I did not want to tell anyone because I thought I was smarter then to get myself into something like this. At first it was grabbing my rear and breasts playfully. Then he started hurting me by pinching and hurting me. When i complained he slapped me or pushed me around. He never stopped screaming at me and blamed me for everything. He forced me to do everything around the house while he sat on the couch drinking and barking more orders. I was scared to say anything to him because I saw what he did to my family and friends.
Every time i threatened to leave he would throw himself up against the door and cry and scream like a baby asking me to not leave him and telling me he was going to kill himself if i left. Of course i stayed but as time went on i realized that the last thing Jimmy would do is hurt himself. He was to busy hurting me and everyone else. We ended up moving like 6 times because he was hiding from someone. I heard he owed some pretty bad people money and he is always watching over his shoulder. This man is a scum bucket. I had a good job and a large savings.
When I finally got away from him he had taken all my money, all my possessions and i lost my job. He owns that paint company and he ripped off the woman before me of everything she had to get the money to start that. Justin is right in his complaint. I did not know him or what happened last year. I was not with him. I do know that when I would stop in he was always yelling at people and I think the only word he knew was the four letter F word. No one liked working there and no one liked him. I have a deep hatred for him. He is no good, rotten and horrible. Beware of him Ladies.
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