I am sure that I have the right guy here and I heard he had moved to Wisconsin and started some kind of company. I am not surprised to hear he is still doing the same thing to other people he did to me. I am still trying to figure out his real name let alone what is true line of work was. It looks like he is calling himself Jimmy again. He told me his name was John and then after we dated for a month or so he told me his name was Jimmy. You can understand my confusion here. One thing I do know for sure is this man is a con man, liar and thief with alchi and druggie mixed in. Did not think he was smart enough to have a company and like that other woman complained I am sure he is taking advantage of someone or some others to get what he has. For sure there has to be another woman he is taking advantage of. When he lived with me he was the laziest man I ever was involved with and did not work a day we were together. I supported us both.
After we lived together for a time and from the other reports on this site I am sure it is the same guy. I met this guy online a few years back and like that other woman said. He was like a dream come true. Took me out to dinner and wined and dinned me for about 3 weeks then I let him move in with me. Perfect gentleman. From day one told me he had never met a woman like me. Told me I was his dream woman and told me every day before I went to work that he loved me and never loved anyone as much as me. At night I would get home and he had dinner all ready and he would lay his head on my shoulder, smile in my eyes and tell me he missed me and he loved me. Did not even want to have sex with me for weeks and told me he preferred to wait until I was ready and for me to make the first move. He told me he would never change for me like his other girlfriends wanted him to and I told him I would never ask him to change the way he was treating me. It was fabulous I felt like Cinderella and I had met my Prince
Deep down in I felt otherwise. I got in trouble by my manager several times because he kept calling me at work. I thought it was becuse he loved me but I it was becuse he did not trust me. All the right signals were there but I kind of trusted what I felt that something was not right about him and if I had doubts all I had to do is talk to Jimmy. He was such a good listener and he would put my doubts to rest. I asked all the right questions and even had a friend of mine who is a Allentown cop check him out and he could not find anything bad about him and he could not find anything about him at all. My friend said he did not think Jimmy was using real name but when I asked Jimmy he always insisted it was and then changed the story and told me some sob story and begging me to not mistrust or mistreat him like everyone else has in his life and then he would go on for hours about how mistreated he was by his family and his wicked step mother. He told me all these stories about how everyone picked on him when he was growing up and I felt so sorry for him. I fell for it and he was able to con me and all of my family except my daughter and my brother who figured out he was no good and rotten from the start. If I listened to my them I would have not been RIPPED OFF so badly.
Jimmy told me he had spent time in the military fighting in the gulf war and even started crying about it. I found out that was a lie and he had never been in the military. He told me he had all kinds of money and was not interested in my money. That was a huge lie. He did not have any money and after a few months I found out the money he spent on me he got from his last girlfriend who he left penniless when he met me. He told me he had a degree in engineering and that was a huge lie. He told me he did not have any kids and I find out later he had at least 6 kids with different mothers in different states and he was not supporting any of them. There was nothing that came out of this mans mouth that was the truth.
About 8 months into the relationship Jimmy reared his ugly head and then everything started to fall into place. I found out from my daughter that while I was at work he was drinking and taking pain relief drugs from my medicine cabinet I had for my hysterectomy. My daughter 12 years at the time said she felt unsafe because he was making eyes at her and was flirting with her when she got home from school. I questioned him and he told me if I believed my daughter over him he would leave. I did not want to be left alone so I believed him and not my daughter. The next day my daughter moved in with her father and I have seen her 2 times since that day. She is now grown, married with 2 grandchildren and has never forgiven me for what happened. My family has never forgiven me and do not come around anymore. My brother told me I should have listened to him and I did not and he will not even take a call from me. I will pay for being with this con man 14 months, for the rest of my life. I thought I was lonely before. Nothing compares to the lonliness I feel now.
As all bad stories like this go and like the other woman said. I kept him around for a while and pretty soon he was passed out when I got home from work and got more verbally and physically abusive when he was awake. I was afraid to go home if he was awake and would drive around for hours until he was sleeping. I was afraid to leave him because he threatened me and my family.
Then he started getting up in the middle of the night and leaving for no reason. When I asked him where he was all night he would tell me he had to go to the bar to think and he needed time alone. I followed him one night and he was not alone. He was with another woman. I did not say anything. I figured he would con his way into her life and leave me. A few months later I came home from work and Jimmy, Johnny or whoever he is had cleaned my house out of everything that I am sure he could pawn for money and the money I had stashed a couple thousand was gone to. I should have called the cops and turned him in but the truth was that I was more then glad to get rid of him and get my life back. I heard later he did the same thing to the girl I saw him with and she is the one that told me he moved to Wisconsin.
The experience was horrible and even now I am not interested in dating anymore. I am afraid I will meet another one like him. If you are a woman out on the internet and dating watch out for this man and others like him. If they seem like a dream come true or the perfect gentleman get away from them. They will turn out to be your worst nightmare. There is no such thing as a perfect man or woman. This man is worse then bad news and like a bad penny he will never go away until he hurts you and takes everything from you including your family.
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