Wendy M Faulkner (Cole) is a civilian worker at Maxwell AFB in Alabama. She does medical coding and billing. She is married with children. She is 35 years old. She is also a home wrecker.
She looked for my husband on myspace. She asked to be his friend. She then proceeded to say she was doing this for a "friend" and that she didn't know he was married. She was very good at lying.
My husband and I were going through a rough patch, and some how she managed to find that out. She started writing him emails at work, to ask him how his day was and such. The emails then branched off to myspace, and they often told of her very unhappy marriage. She told my husband how her very own husband cheated on her and they weren't having sex anymore. My husband fell for the damsel in distress act. She was feeding his ego, too, and that made things so easy to fall and be trapped in this evil.
She then started joking around about having an affair with my husband. He told her he would never cheat on his wife because he takes his marriage vows seriously. She said she figured, but it would be fun. He just listened to her talk about herself, really. She even told him she had cheated on her husband before.
Things backed off then, and it became a relationship of joking around and sex talk and such. Eventually, a time came where her husband and kids were gone for the weekend. She invited my husband to have a few drinks at the local bar. He shows up at the bar, and she isn't there.
He came back home and and he called her. She asked him if he would go over to her house. He said no. He stayed home.
Long story short, in all of this, I had a weird feeling my husband was lying to me and I played a spy. I found out all of this and then some in myspace emails. I was devastated. My husband has taken full responsibility for his actions, and knows it will be a while before I ever full trust him again.
I got up the courage to ask this woman how she could do this, by writing to her on her myspace. She vehemently denied everything. She told me I was easily fooled my emails. They don't always read what they mean. She told me she never saw my husband. Little did she know he had come clean with just about everything because he knew he had to.
She wasn't to thrilled when I asked her about courting young married men (my husband is in his 20's) and she just about blew her top. She told me I should not f* with her, because I don't know what I am getting myself into. She told me that she hadn't talked to my husband since the day he wrote her about never speaking again. He told her he would not lose his family over her. She said he would hear from her because I messed with her.
She wrote my husband at work. She told him she personally told me off and told my husband I better not even try to f* with her. She really has no remorse. She believes I am the one with no life, and that I amuse her.
I really feel bad for her husband. I may be mistaken - maybe they have some kind of an open relationship. I just wonder if she realizes her actions. She boasts to be the greatest mother. I think a great mother would realize her children could one day find out about this situation. As a mother myself, I could not imagine telling my children I was so selfish that I nearly ruined my marriage and another as well.
Really, if you know this woman, please stay away. She has no conscience. She doesn't feel remorse for her actions. She does whatever she wants for her pleasure and doesn't think of others. She is hateful. She is unhappy. Remember, misery loves company...
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