My husband and I had separated briefly in 2004. My husband had a one night stand with a woman that resutled in the birth of a unwanted child. My husband had never been told or notified about the possibility of this woman being pregnant.in October of my husband received papers in the mail for child support, so of course he requested a paternity test. The test did prove that my husband is the father of the kid.
The court now is in the process of determining what amount is due the kid. I have found that I, the wife am now being victimized by the court system because I work and have a income. They are requesting financial information from me on behalf of this kid... I THINK NOT! I don't think it is the court's place or anyone elses place to request my financial information because I can't, don't want to and will not help with the support of that kid.
I have a 7 year old daughter of my own for which I support. The mother of the kid is on social service and, hence, I a taxpayer am already supporting that kid. Since there is no support order for my daughter who was here first, the court is trying to railroad my husband and order more in support for a second kid because I work (I don't get it). If the child is the product of 2 parents, isn't it the place for both parents to get up off their behinds and provide for the kid?
Some of the woman should actually take more time to get to know some of the people they choose to have children with and man should be more careful laying down with woman they don't know. This kid is a product of a one night stand, not love. This kid will never know its father because physically he resides in another state and also because I will not ever welcome the kid to my home. I am sure there are many who will judge me without walking a mile in my shoes but both my husband at the time nor this woman concerned themselves with me or my daughter so I can care less about anyone other than the well being of my daughter.
My husband will pay the court ordered child support based on HIS income only, I have been forced to remove my husband's name off of any joint accounts, title deeds and mortgage as this woman gloats and thinks it is a game. Please leave me and my financial status alone, i will not pay for this kid now or never. My point is because 2 individuals decided to sleep together for a moment of pure satisfaction, a child will have to suffer. Why not everyone make better choices for these children and get to know each other?
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