My ex owes over $14,000 in past due support i have never refused visitation nor acted inappropriate in front of our children towards him i also didn't have children with a man that could not afford them but the thought of actually suppoting his kids through child support or help with school clothes or lunches daycare ect, obviously sickens him and his girlfriend (who has a 2yr old by him) so much that they will do and say just about anything
He has taken waiter jobs, under the table work and even had his girlfriend call and try to get me to feel sorry about her baby wich trust me i do. And the most recent was to call child services this was a new low even for him he tried to get me for medical neglect because i thought my child should be seen by her pediatrician on some memory problems she was having or come to find out not having rather than an er but what would that matter to him there is no hope of him paying that bill. And trust me as his criminal record reviels he has no shame in abbusing an er.
I had hoped that we could get past our struggles and was even happy to see him start a new life and told my children to always treat his newest child like they do eachother but it is becoming painfully obvious that he is not the man nor father i thought he could once be some men are always out for #1 even at the expense of their own children because as they get older he is making sure they understand things most of us adults can't
Regardless of popular belief its not all about the money more so it is about a fathers character. I want my children to feel loved and supported by there father the same way as i was able to feel about my own.
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