Valie and I were in a "monogamous" relationship for approximately 1 year and 8 months. It was a seemingly great relationship. It got serious enough to fly her out of state to meet my parents, siblings and extended family. I also spent a vast majority of free time with her and her extended family. We flirted with the idea of marraige and from the enormous amount of time we spent talking, I thought I knew who she was. I invested a great deal of trust and emotion into her.
It was eventually discovered, towards the end of the relationship, that Valie had been having a long distance affair with a man she met playing the online video game World of Warcraft. It grew serious enough to where she would have phone-sex with said man very regularly and she would even make calls from my house to him. She then took a trip to LA to visit him in the midst of a family vacation.
I discovered this, but while digging up all the evidence I discovered another man. It got worse. This man had been having sex with Valie since day one of our relationship and he had even warned her that he had Herpes before tehir first time. She didn't care about the risk to my health and did it anyway. We had both been tested when we agreed we would be exclusive and on birth control so that we could have unprotected sex.
BUT, Valentine would sleep with this guy once a month. All of this information was only admitted when she realized he and I had been exchanging information and I knew the facts.
He said he didn't know about me and was just as shocked as I was.
Valie denied everything until she was 100% sure she was busted on each count.
I spent tons of money on her, gave her attention and affection, and loved her family. She professed her love to me daily all while lying and cheating mercilessly.
Valie claimed that she was being safe while sleeping with the guy by getting tested but obviously had absolutely zero respect for me and my well being.
Her excuse was that she didn't really know better, but that I could trust her if I took her back... Because "now she knows what her stupidity had cost her".
It would be hard to be a more foul human being than this girl and she should be avoided at all costs... No matter how sweet and interesting she appears to be.
This is the ultmiate rip-off - when you rip-off years of a caring persons life.
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