There is no where to begin, and no where to end.
This girl is really in need of some help. She has done everything possible to make our life miserable. She has abused my stepson physically and mentally. There is toooooo much to try to put on here but some examples are:
He was out in the middle of the road by her old place when he was about a year old while she was asleep in her trailer.
He has come to us repreatedly with brusing, and not properly dressed at xmas time when we had tons of snow and ice, he was wearing a tank top!
He has come to us with a moldy bottle in his mouth and we took it to social services and they said that it was not enough to show neglect!
She has run us off the road with our children in the car while hanging her middle finger out her car window cussing us.
Sshe has had an attorney send us letters saying that I was at her place of work harassing her and that an incident report was filed and I took the letter to the police, and they went to her place of work and it was verified that I was NEVER at her place of work and nothing of the such ever happend.
She has denied visitation on many occassions and right now it has been since xmas that we saw him as she makes it nearly impossible.
She was calling us constantly harassing us. We tried to get the harassment to stop by going to the district attorney, but he would not even listen to the messages. So we changed our phone number.
She was driving by our home, and mysteriously my husbands tools and things started coming up missing, and then our pet rabbits were killed. One had it's head cut off, and the others neck was broken.
She called trying to convince me that my husband had been sleeping with her two months after we were married. She even called our pastor of our church and told him a bunch of lies. She takes a bath with the kid and he will be four years old next month.
The last three time he was with us, he told us that mama "tugs" on his pee pee. I have no idea what that is supposed to mean and I don't know if I want to know.
She has made the child call so many different men daddy, that they poor kid is bound to be messed up.
Visitation is supposed to be at the police department, and she made it to where I can't be present, and many times she would make excuses for why she could not get there. So my husband would come to her home to get the child, and she would come to the door in see thru nightgowns or in a robe opening it up in front of him, and if he would not fall for her crap or listen to what she had to say, then she would tell him that he was not getting his son.
We saw her in the store one day and she looked right at the child in front of us and told him that his daddy did not love him or care about him and then walked off.
She is now driving by our new home, calling husband's family members and telling all kinds of crap.
She had another baby almost a year ago, and she sent DNA papers to our home for my husband to take dna test on this kid, and he has not been with her since 2001!
She called my sister in law yesterday to tell a bunch of crap, and my sister in law heard my stepson in the back singing "Mama Margie gonna marry Daddy Troy", over and over again which tells me exactly what she is trying to do.
She called my husbands cell phone trying to tell him that she saw me somewhere and that I told her that he was a dope head and living with some other girl.
The kid tried to run to my husband one day and she snatched him up by his little arm and swung him over her shoulder and yelled, "It's not his visitation time he is not seeing you!" Needless to say, he had finger bruising around his arm, which we did report and of course, nothing was done.
One time we got the child for a couple of hours when he was about a year old, and he was wearing a big size 5T sleevless shirt and was filthy. He had a sticky place in his hair. We returned him the same way since we had limited time. The NEXT night was our vistation weekend, and believe it or not, the kid was brought to us in the same exact shirt and even filthier and that same sticky place was still on his head. I have this on videotape. It was before she decided I did not need to be there anymore.
Whe makes him tell people that he hates me. I remember one time we had took the kids fishing (we have a 10 yr old daughter together and I have a six yr old duaghter also). And when we returned home, we put the little cooler with the soda on the floor in the kitchen, and he wanted to get one so we told him to go ahead and get one. Well, the next thing we knew, the cooler was turned over and ice everywhere and the poor child was in the corner screaming "PLease don't hit me, Pleas don't hit me!"
A babysitter he used to have told us how when he was brought to us how he would have red welts all over him from where she had hit him. She said she contacted social services too, but who knows.
Those are just some examples. The girl has some serious mental problems. I fear for my stepson, and the other child she has she has probably turned the child against us. She won't work visitation out with us so my husband can get the child his work schedule has changed. He has to go to work several hours before his pick up time. And she knows that he is at work, and still goes down to the police station sitting there making the child think his daddy is getting him, knowing that he can't show up becuase he is at work. And then when daddy does not show up, I am sure she tells the child the same thing she did in the store, that his daddy does not love him.
I mean, she actually believe the things she says! She was trying to convince me that my husband was going to spend his birthday with her at her house. According to "sources", she even made him a cake!!!
She came to our old house tryin to convince me that my husband had spent the last friday night with her and what they did and what he said, etc etc. When my husband got home and called to confront her about it, she did not know I was standing there by the phone and could hear her, and she tried to say that I was lying, that she never came over and said any such thing.
She called my husband's aunt while I was on the phone with her, trying to tell her that the night before my husband had called her and all kind of things. But my husband and I were together with our children at the time she said this happend, so... Sheesh... When would that have happened?
She has said and done so much. We just can't take it anymore. Our oldest daughter has some problems, and she does not need this extra stress in our family right now. We have been dealing with this girl for almost four years now and nobody will help us!!! We don't know what to do anymore or where to turn. This girl seems to be able to do whatever she wants to do around here. The lies have got to stop. The harassment has got to stop. The stalking has got to stop. Whe needs to get a life and get out of ours. She needs to get some serious help.
I warn anyone that meets her, to go the other direction. If not, you will learn quickly what you have gotten yourself into.
There is much much more I could tell, but, there just probably is not enough room. About how he has been dressed, etc. Which remind me of the time when he was two, he was wearing a size 0-6 mo. Outfit!!! The pants were above his knees and all tight and his arms were crunched together in it.
She kept his feet in the same shoes forever, resulting in his feet being deformed looking sort of now, cause his toes all curve in now.
A girl that used to stay with her told us that guys would come to the front door, and she would take them back in her bedroom and leave the kid locked out in the hallway screaming and banging on the door. My husband said that she slapped my stepson's little leg when he was about 3 months old because he was crying and left a big red welt and they got into a big fight about it.
I just want everyone to know that this girl is psychotic, and lives off of making people's lives miserable. She lives off of lying and starting trouble. She is abusive and neglectful to her children, and she has harassed us for the past few years, and she continues to stalk us by driving by all the time and telling all kinds of lies about us. Beware, she is unlike anything you have ever expierienced. Please be careful if you get involved with her. Your life will never be the same.
Anyway, like I said, there are SEVERAL things I could tell you, about the way my stepson has come to us, and all kind of other things but there is just not enough room for me to do it here.
Social services around here are ridiculous too. We have tried and tried to get help for my stepson, but they just don't seem to care. They would not even look at our photographs of the hanger mark brusies on my stepson's legs. They said they could not look at OUR photos. The only photos they consider were ones that they took. Sheesh.
She also thinks it is funny for him to cuss and the child things it is ok. And it is really hard when we have tried to take him to church (we are very active in our church), and he is yelling out cuss words. Well, hope someone can help us.
Thanks and God bless you all. Oh, and the new boyfriend she has, I think his name is Dan now (they usually last two-four weeks), she has been talking about how retarded your kids are and how she would love to beat thier little butts. She told that to my sister in law the other day just in case you get on here. Please be careful.
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