In the many times that I have been to the state of UTAH, rather that of SALT LAKE CITY, I had found it hard to be a part of the nightclub scene, and indeed find it hard to socialize and fraternize with females, [whom are white, asian, and hispanic] in the many nightclubs that are there... Not than I do not try, and am not a open & congenial [black] minority male, but rather the opposite:
It just seems to be that there is a real "stereotyping", as to when [at least] your being a a black male, attempting to be open and friendly, in socializing with females of all races and colors in nightclubs, [beside that of your own] that no one, wants to reciporocate the same, [being a female, of any race and color, minus my own race] that are nightclubbers in Salt Lake City Utah... I feel such feelings of racial sterotyping are even more fostering, as I see such websites as the above mention, showing [primarily] anglo males, anglo females and females of all races & color, [in photos] "partying", and "having a good time", but a commom rarity, that you will see [photos of ] a [black, asian, and hispanic] minority male, doing the same...
In my past attempts to get to the bottom of this matter, I had posted several time on the forum section of this website, of the consternations I had, and well as inquire as to why nightclub life, seems to be so stigmatized, in Salt Lake City Utah, not seemigly be open to minority males, [whom are black, asian, and hispanic] only to recieve a multitude of caustic, sour apathetic rebuttals for my troubles and [mainly] from anglo males, anglo females, the forum masters, and from caustic females of color, as to what I have discovered...
As well caustic innacuarte replies, from occassional "uncle tom": Whom feels that just because that he has "got in", and has been "accepted", there must be a problem with me, [not so, in any way, form, or fashion] and that I was "self loathing", and I had "disrupted", the stability", of their "so called", ["user friendly"] forum, wishing that I was dead, or would just go away... Such comments were allowed to remain on the site, [from the many rebuttal repliers] but not mine, and hencefore, I was banned from the site, never to post again... Though I can, but have chose not to, as it is a issue that no one on the forum is willing to admit to, or confront...
Once, being a [black] citizen, of the state of utah, living in provo, and salt lake city, I do have first hand knowlege, as to how minority males are mistreatd, in not just the nightclub scene, but in the state of utah... While this website seems to promote utah party goer's whom are anglo males, anglo females, and females of all races to join in the "life" it seems quite obvious and open, as to whom it does not want... One view at the webiste, will tell you so... {Unless they see this "concern", as I have posted it, & out of deceit, or deception, they quickly decide to change some of the aspects of it, mainly the photos section of the website, to reflect, that black, asian, and hispanic males are indeed at least welcomed to the at least the salt lake city utah nightlife} I have tried to contact the mayor and governor of utah, [one male, one female] via email and or phone, inquring, if their state believes in such [unlawful & racist business practice] ethics, but to no avail... They will not reply either...
In what I believe, as to not be "false alligations", implied by me, but knowing that there is a truth to what I say... I would reccommend that minority males whom see this "report" utilize their best judegement accordingly to the information that they see regarding this website, as it seems to be a site where anglo males, anglo females and females of all races & colors can use it to the best of their "advantage" in finding the "hot nightspots" to go to, [be it there in salt lake city, utah, or ibiza, spain, which it seems that they are so fond of] where they are going to be accepted the most, but not those of us, whom are [black, asian, and hispanic] minority males... And I would urge caution to minority males not of the state of utah, to be careful, as to what nightclubs that they may go to, that are not "minority male" friendly...
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