This woman has done it all. We married in stupidest thing I've ever done in my life. Our son was born in 1998. First she hires a sleezy attorney, John Temrowski, and files for divorce. This guy should have wrote the book on how to make for a messy divorce. He starts off by telling her, "file as many police reports as you can, even if you have to make them up. Steal whatever you can. And when you're in court, lie when I tell you to" And these are all things she did.
Before the divorce was even filed, she calls the Chesterfield police one night and says that she was hit and that she didn't feel save with me living there. Again, all recommended by her attorney. It took me two years to staighten that one out.
First month once divorce had been filed, she takes some altered court papers to my son's elementary school saying that I was not allowed to pick my son up. For no other reason than to be mean. And the principal of the school Mr. Wrona had no clue was he was reading, so he fell for it, as she knew he would. Again, told to do this by her attorney.
She had the courts tell me that I couldn not live in the home. Fortunately, I had my parents. Then she stole every thing out of the home over the next six months. Meanwhile, she disobeyed court motion to pay at least part of the utilities and bills. She gave me the house in the divorce but only because it was destroyed and she hadn't kept up on the bills. So I lost the house.
She won't allow me to see my son sometimes for weeks at a time. She tells him that I don't love him and don't want to see him. I have filed motions in court but they tell her to let me see him and then it starts all over.
And every time, I make another threat that I am going to take her back to court, she files a police report saying that I have vandalized her car or home. Again, advice from her attorney.
She has borrowed almost $10,000 from my parents and has refused to pay them back. And if they do anything about it, as they did try to, then they won't see their grandson.
I'm remarried now to a wonderful woman but I had to step in on that one in the beginning. She tried to befriend my wife by telling her how she can put bugging software on my computer, that I am having an affair and she saw me (which I'm not), that I am sleeping with my ex (NO WAY), how to extort money, and how she can come live with her if she needs a friend. Needless to say, I told my wife that this woman tries to pretend to be your friend so that she can betray you.
Plus, she calls my entire family and tells them that she is telling my son that I am either dead or in jail. Even though I want to see him.
I've learned to play reverse psychology with this woman. If I tell her that I can't take my son for the weekend, she makes sure he is ready and packed. If I tell her I want him, as I was doing, she finds a way to not let me see him.
I owe child support. I've seen all the women on here complaining. But here is the cold hard truth. The only reason I owe is because of all the thousands of dollars that she either stole from me or that I had to pay for an attorney that did absolutely nothing. Between the two things, I've lost enough money so that my son could have had a 4 year college education paid for.
Does that make any sense? It doesn't even pay me to work anymore, because I make about 20 cents on a dollar after he and the government. This woman is SICK.
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