Jodi Abernathy is a nurse that currently works at Scottsdale Healthcare North. She had an affair with my husband. She lives with her boyfriend Carlo and cheats on him all the time. She talks behind his back consistently. She complains that he is abusive, yet she does not leave him despite the fact that she has no children and financially supports him. This woman not only slept with my husband but many other male employees of the hospital.
She dropped her pants at work... At the nurse's station... in front of my husband to show him that she was wearing a thong! She let it be known before that time that she normally wore granny panties. All this talk was begun by her to get the boys interested in her panties. This was one of her many little behaviors she used to seduce my husband. She talked of sex often, shared personal intimate details of her life, bemoaned her problems constantly and pretended to want to be saved. She even told my husband that Carlo forces her to wear the same outfit every time they have sex (includes black stockings and a garter belt). What kind of woman tells a married man those kinds of things? Many dumb guys fall for the hussy victim type. She claims that her parents abandon her She flirts without shame with practically all the doctors she comes in contact with at the hospital.
She knew that he was married and had in fact met me several weeks before the affair began. She told my husband repeatedly that she loved him yet seemed to have no concern over destroying his family. She is somewhat unfortunate looking. She is losing her hair, has bad teeth and does not have a pretty face. The old joke about having to tie a pork chop around her neck to get the boys to be interested works well here.
Jodi acts like a crude man. She smokes, drinks beer, loves football, is losing her hair, sleeps around, uses drugs (mainly cocaine) and swears often. She is very fair (almost like an albino), has short to no hair and looks like a thin boy. If you have an affair with her, it will more than likely be a subconscious homosexual encounter. My husband is in counseling.
During the affair, Jodi called my husband
constantly. They made out in the employee parking garage all the time (how mature is that?). They had sex in the hotel across the street from the hospital (The country inn and suites). I have the receipt. My husband said that although she has slept with many men and women (by self report) she really does not know what she is doing. Her breasts without a bra sag down to her waist and the only hope for her rear end is plastic surgery.
Beware of this woman. She will sleep with anyone who tells her something positive about herself. She is very selfish and uses the victim role to get what she wants which is mainly attention. My husband did not use a condom. She does not require it. Jodi is unconcerned about STD's. It is hard to believe that she is a nurse!!! She is only concerned about getting pregnant. She is 35 and the clock is ticking... So who knows, the next guy may be the lucky winner. As for being a mother, I do not envy the unborn child. The woman has no self respect, respect for others nor love for self and others. Selfishness is not a good motherly trait.
Jodi is a liar. She lies to everyone. She lies to her boyfriend Carlo, to her friends and to her co-workers. She talks behind everyone's back. My husband confessed the affair to me and afterwards Jodi could not understand why he did not continue to lie to me. She really had no idea why he would ever tell me about the affair. She has no remorse whatsoever. She acts like someone who cannot distinguish right from wrong and who cannot empathize with anyone's feelings but her own. Is that a sociopath or a narcissist? Perhaps it's both. Whatever the label, it is best avoided. If you see this woman, do yourself a favor and run in the other direction. She has really bad karma and no one needs this kind of garbage in their lives.
My husband has taken full responsibility for the affair. My husband was the one that betrayed me. We are in marital counseling and trying to save our marriage. Jodi, however played a part in the adultery. If all women refused to sleep with married men, then we would truly have sisterhood. Jodi is not part of the good sisterhood. I have never and will never sleep with a married man outside of my marriage. Any woman who does is just kidding herself... If he cheats on his wife, he will cheat on you... It's common sense.
I would not let her be my nurse under any circumstances. I know that drugs and alcohol stay in your system for some time. The hospital really ought to "randomly" drug test this woman. It does not seem safe that a drinker and drug user is taking care of people in the ICU. YIKES!!!
Jodi also has a self admitted gambling problem. This woman is like a poster child for all 12 step programs. If your future includes Jodi, you can look forward to her lying to you, sleeping around, flirting with everyone, drugging, drinking and generally not acting like a lady. If all that is not enough for you, maybe she will gamble all your money away as well. She is very passive aggressive in that she flirts with men, drops her pants, talks of sex and then pretends to be surprised when anyone shows interest and feigns shyness. It is a dumb, sad little game.
You can view her picture at classmates.com. She describes herself as the nicest person you will ever meet. If self awareness is the purpose of life, I would say that Jodi is not even found the path of enlightenment let alone taken any steps on her journey.
This is a warning. If your husband is a doctor and works at or has privileges at Scottsdale Healthcare North, make sure he steers clear of this woman. Her intention is to land a doctor and be on easy street. She is really immature with little girl dreams and no morals.
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