My now ex husband who would not work a real job for the last 5 years of our marriage is still avoiding jobs. He has a good degree from ATI (4.0 & cum laudie) After graduation he said no one would hire him because of the economy. He has been fired & laid off many jobs for personal hygiene tardyness or bad performance.
He will only work under the table if he can & will quit a job (or get fired) as soon as the notices go out for the deductions.
The only job he has continually had for the last 5 years is at Scarborough faire or Scream's halloween park. Since he is contract labor there they do not deduct the child support or insurance.
He is behind $5-7000 in support & insurance & that dosn't include the copays for the therapist, dr's or medication. He is ignoring his son & hasn't bothered to call or check on him since he walked out except the day he broke in to the house & took what he wanted. He has seen him on 2 other occasions only because he was forced to come over.
After years of his emotional cry baby techniques (narcisist & excelent w / the emotional abuse) I had enough & quit responding so now he has moved on to a new patsy. He slept around w / at least her for a few years before I found out. (silly me actually trusting my husband) Im sure he has her snowed w / the same lines he used to get me only now painting me as the bad person instead of his family.
Beware his sob stories. They don't pan out in the long run when you meet the people involved.
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