I had a relationship with this woman... I'm from Australia and She's from Philippines. I had a chance to see her 6 times for 3 years. The first time I met her from tagged online, we chat met webcam, then she asked me money, her foster mother explained me about her reason problem with owing to other peoples, also rent behinds, motorbike, I accept helped her. She asked me marry her, I accept her, I went fly visited her philippines in we married lesbian through lawyer witness, also her family and gely. After holiday, return home, during week later, I broke money, she came online very late at night, asked my money, while our first marriage week old, I refuse because I broke money, she mad talk, horrible things, want broke up with me, it shock me and hurt my heartbroken, cried, upset, worse, shaking, couldn't eat food, I lose weight, skinny, upset. However from beginning from what happened with our three years in this relationship." Money & Naive love in relationship". True.
We had good relationship for 6 months then after that we had up and downs in our relationship. I'm helping her for her needs. I'm sending her money to pay her rent and food, bills and her allowance and hospitals, expenses, outings travels, college, businesses and motorbike. She think that is part of our relationship, but she doesn't act real wife to me, she act me like as "ATM" as wife to her. Through our three years relationship, I' m learned about her culture, she is very stubborn girl, "forceful" ask my money, she never understand about my finance issues, or I have teenager children what their needs, she have no respect and no feeling warm heart, what she want her attention of my money what she needs for three years. She think that my disability are judge to her due her culture, not true, thats why because of her stubborn and refuse to commitment, her blew up mad, if I said 'NO' she was pissed off and ignore and remain silent, not come online, until she keep fighting her love to me for what she needs. Thats why I learning about her being three years, she is young, I encourage her to get work, get salary, also did helped her four times buisness but her failed with four business, her foster mother told me truth, she waste her money gone, I never knew that thats why china always blew up if I knew inform details from her foster mother by emails. However thats why we fighting all times, china blew up very strong mad, she think that I start fighting all times, but not really, I was angry thats all but she always refuse to resolve problem, refuse to commitment, ignore me for weeks, or she dislike to inform me about her, she is very secretive person.
She dont want get on line because she enough of fighting and chatting with me because I always mad to her. I realise what she said after our broke up. It impact me and hurt my breakdown because I' m foolish my generous to help her money all times, which she dosen't care online much, she came online when she broke money, ask my money, after I sending her Western Union money, she never came back online for weeks or month, until she broke money, she came back online talk me, asking my money.
I agree help her some money once a month, but she never listen, she always making good excuses, owe to other peoples", "hospitals" want get more money $300 or $400 fortnightly, I admit myself to be angry mad, because I have tried to explain her my reason, she never listen, she kept ignore my explained, she care herself more than me, what she want her needs important than being love to me as wife, as general talk anything, she do think that treat me as disability stupid, deaf dumb, she took advantage talk the way to me. That's why our relationship getting worse more, she only came online for talk sweet talk, says " I miss you wife" " I love you so much wife" "good news" lot of things, I believed her then she care online for asking my money, I was naive this time, because I'm in love with her in my heart, but from since last year, I realise it was fifth holiday trip to philippines to see her, she are not good enough to me, nothing give me gift for my birthday, also nothing give me anything, or not provide me anything, not treat me as love, she think herself being vain and look herself look at her mirror all times, it make me clarify to see what her attitude the way she is, it hurt me more and painfully, thats why I want broke up with her since last year, she said 'no one help her" also she said that I'm only one who can help her, she said she will keep fighting her love me for what her needs, but she did kill herself to frightened me so I panic to stay in relationship with for her sake for what she needs, I have put up my patience with her through for support her needs.
But then i met my wife and everything Changed, due ruin my finance issues worse because of her. Until this year before I arrived my sixth trip to philippines, I sending her money, she never came online for three weeks, I'm panic worried, I was nervous to arrive up there, I did message of her foster mother, until my departure on same day, china text me, will pick me up at airport. I realize now about her attitude and her way, until I arrived there and met her, everything change my feeling, she doen't act real wife to me.
This year I admit myself, want broke up with her many times, she keep fighting herself love me for what she needs from my money, "broke up" she kept fighting through with it because she have no money, her reason problem getting worse, we have no communicate via facebook or msn, just emails, no webcam for long times. I give up whole everything, I'm tired of her good excuses, during our broke up stage, she kept asking my money still, asking for her business, I refuse but she change her mind want back relationship with me, I nearly believe her, nearly accept it but she still asking my money for her business, I looked at our three previous relationship, she will never learn herself, she will asking my money continue for her needs, I decide firm this time, I ignore her, confirm broke up with her, but she already got someone new relationship which I didn't know that, however, she never communicate me via facebook or msn, she kept text me, she need me help her, she love me as wife, by text message, she email me and want money from me, I send her little money, it pissed me off and miserable hurting my feeling, I feel that she used my money, not being love me as real wife. We agree stay good friend, she kept asking my money, it getting worse for me that upset me more. Until I got sick from my liver, went hospital for one week, until I get home. She finally online and show me webcam, she kept asking my money for her business. I feel worn out, I feeling miserable feeling that she didn't care what I have been sick from liver, she care herself more what she needs, thats why I realise about her attitude and her ways. After few week later she kept text me says " thank you so much for everything and I'm sorry if I'm not good enough for you. I realize I need to move on. I love you and goodbye my wife frances. Her text last one says, " dont worry. I will not bother you anymore. I will move on. Thank you and I will find someone who love me and never give up on me. Thankyou.
I realise what she said, thats mean she will never learn herself to get her own salary work or her family help each other but I know her uncles are irresponsible and no work and no money, also her mom have no money too, china is only one who can get money from previous relationships, first one from england, short term, america, short term, now it me for three years, long term relationship, I have patience with her for being three years, it give me stress but I have much good experience with philippines culture and philippines are beautiful holiday I have experience, I thank to china to give me wonderful holiday in philippines so I will never forget it, I do love china but it hurt me more worse, I' m sorry.
China has got someone new relationship right now, it hurt me more because thats mean she dont real love me, she care of money of love who never give up on her. China will never learn to get her own money, she remain asking money from new relationship right now.
I feel sad that china owe me alot of money, how much I have been through to sending her money, $300 to $800 amonth for three years, I still hurting more. I will get move on from now.
This is my story about my three years relationship with china catherine disonglo.
"Money & Naive love in Relationship" by Frances
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