Hi there. I am the ex-wife of Christopher Anderson, and I am also mother to his child. Of course, I am not the ONLY mother of his children. He has a little boy from an old girlfriend, and has another woman pregnant, and won't even speak to her.
There is a court order for him to pay child support on our daughter, and until recently, he refused to pay. She is only 7 months old, and has never seen him. I have given him many opportunities to visit her. I took her to see his grandparents, and he became livid when i spoke to him on the phone following the visit.
He has not seen his other child since April. He will not pick him up for visitation, and practically ignored that the boy exists. That child just turned 3. He has a major problem with cheating and infidelity. I don't think he has ever once been faithful to any woman he has been with. At the time he met me, he was living with the mother of his son. HE claimed he was single. I made the mistake of falling for his lies, and married him. Shame on me. I spent the next year and a half taking care of a child in a grownups body.
I finally left him after having suspicions of infidelity confirmed, and to this day, he lies about it. He actually told a girl in a bar (she asked about his wedding ring) that I was having an affair with a woman in order to get her to sleep with him! I also found out that when I met him, he was actually engaged to the mom of his son, and they were planning their wedding! He knew she was pregnant, and ignored it, and gave absolutely no support to her. He even accused her of cheating on him, and said the baby wasn't his (DNA test said different).
This man (if you can call him that) had the nerve to call me a slut for dating AFTER I left him. He is a control freak, and must know his woman's whereabouts all the time. He also alienates his girlfriends from their families and friends, claiming that he wants more time with you by yourself.
After I left him, he began dating a friend of mine taht lives about 100 miles away. She found out the hard way too. He cheated on her with at least 3 different women, and wound up getting one of them pregnant too! As soon as he found out the other woman was pregnant, he stopped seeing her, talking to her, etc.
So please, if you have any self respect, you will not date this man. Ever. Let him be alone for the rest of his life, and let him regret never spending time with his kids. This is just kind of a public service... I am getting remarried in june, so my daughter will not miss out on having a daddy in her life. My fiance is a great guy, that loves me and my daughter no matter what, so it is my ex's loss, noone else's. Just keep my story in mind if you ever have the misfortune of meeting him.
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