I want to tell you about the biggest deadbeat loser on this side of the Miss. After only a month of being married he started abusing me. First, it was mental abuse in which he yelled at me and threatened me. Every time I suggested that we get divorced he threatened to kill me.
I got pregnant after just getting married and things only got worse. He abused me severely the whole time I was pregnant. He was in the Air Force and I lived all the way in North Dakota. I had no where to run and there was 5 feet of snow on the ground. When I tried to run away he would beat me and drag me in the basement and choke me until I passed out.
When the neighbors heard what was going on after one incident they called the police.By the time they showed up I was in labor. That LOSER told them I was just yelling because I was in labor. I agreed because I was scared of him. And all alone.
The abuse never stopped. He choked me and raped me whenever he felt like it. He would threaten to kill me, kill himself, even kill his children if I tried to leave him. He got arrested for drunk driving, threatening a police officer, and reckless driving when I was just 3 months pregnant with our daughter. When he got sent to the Military prison for a month, he left me no money. We had to survive on 30 dollars every two weeks for food and diapers and formula while he was gone.
He continued to drink all the time and abuse me after he got back and even choked me so bad when I was 9 months pregnant with our daughter that I passed out. He would slap and punch me and yell at our children and choke them.
He slept with all of our neighbors and cheated on me when he was deployed. I caught him dropping a girl off up the street from our house one morning.
I felt like I had no way out and sometimes even prayed that I would just die when he was choking me but I just couldn't let go and leave my babies. I wondered how they would ever be taken care of if I died.
When he got kicked out of the Air Force because of his arrest and dishonor I begged him to move to North Carolina. I just wanted to go home. He refused and insisted that we move in with his parents to save up money even though at that time he had plenty of money for an apartment.
The abuse subsided a little bit because we were living with them and he couldn't just rape me and beat me when he wanted to. But his family was mean and treated me and my children like a burden. His sister Stephanie drank and smoked the whole time she was pregnant and her baby was born deformed. She neglected him and told everyone that he wasn't to be held when he cried so he wouldn't be " spoiled".
He started getting really skinny and one day I babysat him and he looked like he was about to die. I called her and she was at the bar. She was angry when I told her that he needed to go to the hospital right away. I told her I would call SOCIAL SERVICES AND THE POLICE if she didn't come home and take him to the Hospital. She came home and snatched him up and took him to the doctor. 5 hours later she returned without him. He had to be rushed into emergency surgery. His stomach was blocked. She never even thanked me and acted like she was mad that I even disturbed her partying.
I got the keys for a new house finally after 6 months of working 14 hour days. I was supposed to pick them up on a Monday. On Saturday night his father came home drunk and stumbled down the stairs into the basement and began to beat me for no reason. He was mad that we weren't moved out yet. I tried to get my keys and run out to my truck and he slammed my head against the door jam and started beating me.
Shawns 600 pound mom did nothing to help me. She didn't call the police or even try to get him off of me. She just stood there and watched. He then threw all of my children on the porch in the pouring rain at night with no shoes or clothes on. The neighbors called the police and they showed up just as I was calling 911. Shawn told the police " you don't need to be here, it's a family thing". His dad got arrested and then we had to sleep in our truck for 2 days.
Shawn and his mom started telling me that I had better not get pictures taken or file charges. I was sick of being abused and after all that me and my children went through before and while we were staying with them I knew I had to get away from them. I went and got pictures taken and didn't tell anyone. When the court date came his dad was cocky and acted like he was not going to get into trouble.
I actually began to wonder if i should press charges because i didn't want shawn to beat me anymore.
But when his dad went up there and totally denied doing anything to me and said I had lied THAT WAS IT!!! I told my lawyer to show the judge the pictures. And he was BUSTED. For the NASTY, ABUSIVE, CHILD ABUSING, ALCOHOLIC, RUDE, HEARTLESS person that he is.
Well of course after this things only got worse with Shawn. He raped me in front of the kids, he beat me, he beat them. He threatened to kill us all if I divorced him. He quit his job and drank all day.
I called and arranged for the movers to come get my stuff and my mom sent money for me to leave. I didn't tell her why at the time but she knew something really bad had happened. Then Shawn found out that I was planning on leaving and said that I wasn't going to leave him with his kids and file for Child Support and that he was coming too. He moved down here with us and it was horrible.
He blocked the front door, he blocked the garage door, and he beat me all the time. He held knives to me and just did anything he could to hurt me. He threw a bowl in the shower while I was in there and cut me to pieces right in front of the kids. He would cry and say sorry after.
Finally I began to feel like he was thinking about killing me because I would wake up at night and he would be looming over me. He said he was just looking at me and it creeped me out. I finally moved out and in with my mom and got away from him. Then he started threatening me telling me I had better not file for Child Support.
Then he had some nasty stripper that he had gotten pregnant come to my house and threaten me. I did file for Child Support and he has not paid me anything. Nothing. He is a deadbeat dad, son of an abusing loser. His father abused him and his mother and sisters when they were growing up. He tried to tell me that's why he was the way he was. They just felt like " no one should know their family business".
I hope his mother is proud of how she raised her son to RAPE, BEAT WOMEN, ABUSE HIS CHILDREN, NOT PROVIDE FOR THEM, AND OTHERWISE BE AN ALCOHOLIC LOSER. Who could do these things? Who could do these things in front of their own children? Who could rape someone on the living room floor and all the while yell at his kids to go to their rooms while they're crying. He sure has plenty of money to spend on strippers and beer and vacations... But he didn't even bother to call his children on their birthday or send a card or a present.
He tries to tell people that I wont let him see his kids but my phone number hasn't changed and he hasn't called one time for them. He hasn't left one message about them. The only messages he leaves are threatening ones and nasty texts. Anyway, just wanted to let ya'll know what kind of LOSERS those people are.
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