Stats are:
-7 years married, five gorgeous daughters, all grown, 9 grands 1 on the way
-found out 26 yrs were used in 6 different affairs, three with my "friends"
-last affair with my "friend" was for 13 years discovered Feb. Of 2008
-only affair known of was in 83 who he said he Loved, and he pined for her adnauseum until I put him out in 86 and he begged to come back three mos. Later
-has admitted to "phone convos" only in past, broken my heart but I loved him and worked hard to regain my trust (he said these calls were with "the love" and she always called him and he was over her)
-These calls were from "her" and many others. Screwed them in cars mostly and the 13 year affair occured almost completely in an SUV of one sort or the other. Sometimes a mtn bike riding event or at the Tsali National Forest for a week long get away to ride all week and "love".
-My life is shattered. I have no idea who I married. I am dealing with cancer in remission, and with MS. I rode with them for a good while in the early 90's but kept hurting myself, it was the MS, and had to stop. But no matter they were screwing a long time before we all decided to bike ride.
When I lost both my breasts in 2004 "she" came to see me in the hospital. I am so far beyond pain and betraya it has a physical manifestation.
Watch out, steer clear. He can weave a sob story like no other, and draw you in. He is very handsome, but only on the outside. Only on the outside.
LizzieWinston Salem, North Carolina
U.S.A.
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