September - December 31st
Well you are not the only mother out there, the question is how many of us are there... I know two other mothers besides myself... Saxon Bryce Kelly is 13 yrs old, Tristan Scott Kelly is 9 years old and my son Mitchell Ayden Kelly is almost 6 years old and we just found out that there might be another little boy almost 1 year old. Will this man ever stop?
I met Scott in September at the Puyallup Fair in Washington State and like the previous writer I was told he was a former Marine... I could go on and on with stories, of lies, etc.
I knew from the beginning he was a liar, but I chose to stay with him out of pitty, when I look back on it that's what it was... Pitty. He made me feel sorry for him, that he had such a rough life and that know one ever loved him, that he was adopted at birth (this is a lie), he grew up in Hawaii (this too a lie), he was a marine sniper (this is a lie), that he used to ride professionally in rodeos (this is a lie too) that he had no kids (HUGE LIE).
When I found out that he had a son I was ok with it, but he made it sound like she wouldn't let him see his son (Tristan), and used this to get my sympathy - this all was a lie, I got in contact with Tristan's mother through an email she send him and found out way more than I wanted to know but I needed to know the truth so that I knew I wasn't going crazy from catching him in all his lies, but he made me feel like I was the one who was losing it.
Shorlty after my email encounter with Tristan's mom, I found out he had another son Saxon (who's name is tatooed on his back), but he had lied to me about him, I came across child support papers for him. But he denied him. He has used Saxon to gain Tristan's mom's sympathy and used her (hopefully she will write her own story) the same way he used me.
In May we were contacted by the state of california in regards to his son Saxon, the state had taken him away from his mother and they wanted Scott to take custody of Saxon. I helped him becuase I didn't know better at the time, I hadn't learned all the truth and I had just found out I was pregnant (by choice I got off the pill after 15 years and we decided to have Mitchell - I wanted a child and I didn't want to have to fight for that child down the road when things didn't work out with Scott which I knew they wouldn't because he was such a liar, I chose to have my son and don't regret having him at all)
He used Saxon to get to me too, he told me his mother wouldn't let him see him, so again he played at my heart strings, I vowed to help him get Saxon with us, he would come to live with us, Scott was verbally abusive to Saxon during his time with us, I stayed as long as I did to protect him from Scott, I wanted to take my son Mitchell and leave but I couldn't leave Saxon with Scott and I didn't have any rights to him... I wouldn't marry Scott.
In December Saxon went to go visit his mom, and said he was never coming back, that was just what I needed to hear, that was my out, that night Scott became abusive towards me and I had to call the police. The next morning I put money down on an apartment and Mitchell and I left Scott for good.
I allowed Scott to see our son once a month for a few hours for about 5 months... When he didn't return my son to me on the day he was supposed to I freaked out, called the police and they said I couldn't do anything since he was the bio dad and that I didn't have a parenting plan.
He finally called me about 5 hours after our scheduled meeting time saying he didn't have to bring back our son and I couldn't make him (he then had some women who I found out was his latest victim) and got her on the phone to talk to me, she assured me that Mitchell would be returned that evening and where could they meet me.
I then began to have over an hour long conversation with her, she then began to see Scott for who he was with my help, see he had lied to her too and told her he had only two kids... Mitchell and Saxon... But NOT Tristan, I gave her my email and told her to write me and I would prove there was another son. He did return my son and I told him that was the last time he would EVER see my son... And that is still the case to this day. This was September.
The gal he was with that day, he had asked her to marry him, in March I was served with court papers that were filled out in her hand writing demanding visitation for my son. See he lied to her... He used her... Scott never wanted my son, he only wanted to use him to get the sympathy from her... Just like he did with me about Tristan.
I hired the most expensive child custody lawyer in the Seattle area, and took his ass to court, I got letters from all of his past girlfriends who he had cheated on, my family, friends, anyone who knew him, even his own biological mother, to prove what a liar he was and he didn't deserve to be in my son's life and there was nothing positive he could do for him or give him. He never showed up to court, and my son and I were awarded a 24 Year restraining order against Scott. The kindergarten teacher - aka ex fiancee left Scott after reading all of the court documents we served him from all the women he had used and all the mothers stories, she saw him for what he was and left him, that was the smartest thing she ever did in my eyes, we are still in contact to this day and remain friends.
Scott is the biggest liar you will ever meet, he's good looking, charming, and a major manipulator!!! He usually seeks out smart, educated women who have money, he will give them sob stories about his life, make up stories about his upbringing, his military background, his rodeo days, and his children... God knows how many of them are out there. He will get their sympathy and uses the kids as crutches to get them to fall in love with him, and use them till they go broke then he moves on to the next victim (oh did I mention he is unfaithful too), two of us have filed bankruptcy because of him and the ex finacee and the other mother almost had to. He even got one women to buy him a truck.
He has recently fled to the Phoenix Arizona area and is probably on his next victim or two or three, and who knows if he's knocked any of them up. I did find him on myspace and warned all of the women on there about him... He uses the internet to meet these women... He also has a yahoo profile and he is on adult friend finder, and who knows where else.
The last I heard a few months ago (September 07) is that the reason he fled to arizona is because he ripped off his landlord/boss, and he has warrants for his arrest here in Washington for breaking an entering, embezzlement, etc.
Also, us mothers have heard there is possibly another child... It's his pattern, even my lawyer said so, he can't stop this pattern, there is approx 4-5 years between each of his children.
Scott can be so charming and loving and you get caught up in his looks, the sex and being manipulated. But he has a dark side, he has hit all of his, he has a temper that is not to be messed with. I've had to call the police twice on him for attacking me, the first time, I made the mistake of forgiving him, the second time, I left him and never looked back. He has been diagnosed with being Bi-Polar in 2004.
This is not about being a scorned women, this is about a man who has a pattern and he is leaving children in his wake. He works under the table so he can avoid having to pay child support for them, he owe's us three mom's almost $50,000 in back support and I'm sure there are others out there like the women who wrote before me. I don't need his support but I'm sure there are others out there that do and they are entitled to it.
My husband who has been raising my son since he was a little over 1 years old wants to adopt my son and get Scott out of our lives for good, but we can't find him... If you happen to know his whereabouts, please contact Washington State Child Enforcement to report him.
Scott is obsessed with his appearance, he wears wranglers, chews, and drives a big black 4 x 4 truck. He talks of being a former Marine and that he was a sniper, that he rode bareback horses and bulls professionally, he is approx 6'1" tall, weights about 190 lbs, tatoos are of the name Saxon, he has military dog tags on his rib cage, he has a Dessert Sun war tattoo on his back as well as one black one across his shoulder blades, he has blondish/brown hair and blue eyes and a smile that will melt anyone's heart.
Thank you for listening and if you have encountered this man, please report him on here... The more we know about him and his patterns maybe we can bring him to justice and have peace for the children who's lives he has destroyed. Don't be fooled by him, don't stick up for him, because trust me he will not stop.
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