Very difficult for me to write this but this is a forum that will not turn it's head because of the stereotype of divorced fathers.
Roxann Boggs Toebe, since I served her divorce papers in Dec. Of has aggressively applied extreme vindictive tactics, punishing our two young children, to show her displeasure over the parting.
Repeated violations of the divorce decree, coming to my house, refusing to leave when asked, anchoring herself in the doorway, screaming for the police when I try to shut the door, telling them I slammed her against a wall, filing a stalking order one week after I filed for a reduction in child support.
Going to court I physically abused her a month earlier (never filed a police report), lied in court, and afterwards, my attorney and I saw her laughing in court. Taken away, without legal action, my ability to call our children, doesn't return calls, making up new excuses all the time, follows me despite the stalking order she filed against me (no previous record or allegations), and dares me to report it to the police or courts.
Refuses to allow me to take our child to the bus stop, scheduled out of town trip with children on Father's Day, refused to allow daughter to share school acheivement over phone (saw daughter cry over this), dresses one child in heavy coat in winter but other child in light jacket, refuses to take children to doctor for two months while they both had significant rashes on their face.
Tells me I have no need to call her, can't call her, to ask about the children unless it is an emergency or about schedule.
Thank you for this forum. I have tried to be friendly from day one. I apologize for everything for peace and that is usually when I get more bizarre behavior. I dare ask for anything, and I hear, "I am not comfortable with that, " as if that is all that matters, what pleases her.
Hate me, just put the children first.
My children cry often. I am powerless to stop this as the courts look the other way, telling me it is he-said, she-said, when in reality it is gospel truth when she says anything and he-said, she-said when I speak.
It is about facilitating agreements and processing people. I feel for this country's children. I am not the only loving parent who wants my ex to be happy, AND for the children to be happy by being close to BOTH parents without interference.
Believe in your cause everyone, no matter the obstacles, and the odds. Keep grinding, have faith in a positive outcome, and God willing, justice and peace will occur.
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