These Internet based "Adult" dating sites are all a fraud! They all lure men into a "free" profile/ad placement and search of their database to meet females. The problem is you must pay to become a "VIP" or some other special designation to contact these alleged women by e-mail, or to respond to any contacts you might receive, or in some cases even to see their complete profile/ad.
Here's where it gets worse... I've seen the same pictures at different sites with DIFFERENT city locations for the profile! Hmmmm, now how can that be? I have a very strong suspiscion that these ads are mostly shills to con a man into becoming a paying member. Why? Because while you are able to send some type of an "I'm Interested In You" contact to a profile/ad at these sites, 99% of them will NEVER respond, or if they do, they will give you a form letter prompting you to see their pictures and meet them at yet ANOTHER PAY WEBSITE! Here's is an example of such a letter, copied and pasted just as I received it...
"Hey, it's Jen from the personals. I got your message. It's Friday night and I still haven't talked to you. Closer to saturday now actually:) How've you been? We haven't talked in a while, so I thought I'd get in touch. You'd better remember me! I'm not even sure you got my last email, but... Anyway, I've been having luck with this site I wanted to show you... I've actually met a couple of people on here, but not Mr. Right... So, you've still got a shot! And if I remember right, you're not too far from where I livew. You should look me up. I made a password for you:)
Http://www.withyoutonight.com/
Invitation code: sextonight
If you use the invitation code above, you and I will be an instant match! My user name is Jen&, by the way...
;) We should get together sometime soon. Let me know.
Bye for now!
Jen"
Be aware that I never had any such conversation with a "Jen", recently or at anytime in the past. Nice huh? I get several of these from a different woman I've never talked to like clockwork on Friday's and Saturday's. All with a similar script, all prompting me to another pay to meet website.
When you attempt to contact the alleged Customer Service department of these sites about these issues your concerns will be ignored, or if you happen to get a response they will say something to the effect that they can't control the factual content of the ads in their database or require members to respond to another member's interest notice, and that the site is "for entertainment purposes". THAT'S where they get around any responsibilty or accountability for propogating their scam.
Guys, don't be fooled! Do not pay anything to join these sites, under any circumstances! If they have a free chat line, and you want to take your chances on talking to what MAY be a woman, or you enjoy looking at some attractive women in ads that you'll never meet via their site or anywhere else, fine. Otherwise, forget it. You have as much of a chance as a one legged man in an a* kicking contest of actually meeting a woman via these websites!
Vinny
Calumet City, Illinois
U.S.A.
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