Hi folks,
I publish this story after it became clear what the story actually was so no one else gets scammed by this women and learns the dirty little secrets this industry doesn't want you to know. I was 28 at the time... Out of a relationship for about a year and burnt out of dating American women. So I tried the international dating scene. I only came to know the true story later after ended up falling in love and married the translator who did the translating.
To make a long story short... I corresponded with this women Natalya Shkolnya spending hundreds of dollars in fee's to correspond primarily with www.chanceforlove.com. It initially started with www.anastasiaweb.com and then moved to www.tobeagency.com. I noticed her photo on CFL's site so we moved there for the sake of cost. Lol or so I thought. I also spent thousands of dollars on english classes for her as well as women's day and christmas etc. The more I think about it the more of a fool I feel like. This is not to mention of the 3500 I spent to cross the ocean from america for airfair and lodging. She didn't even show up to greet me for 3 days after arrival should have been my first clue. Then upon our meeting she began asking questions like " what do I do for a living?" Like we had not covered that in 9 months of conversation... Daily emails etc. So being that the translator and I seemed to be hitting it off I kept asking her to show me the town etc since I was just sitting in a hotel doing nothing while Natalia allegedly was "taking exams" Thankfully this all worked out for the better or else I'd be really pissed.
To make a long story short the translator and I ended up falling in love etc. Got married recently. But still I felt this story needed to be posted. And yes she told me the full story prior to getting married. Sure I was pissed but I knew my soon to be wife was genuine. She was a freelance translator that was contracted but knew my "date" pretty well as she translated quite frequently and knew the inner operations of several agencies.
The reality was Natalia was no different than 80-90% of the women on these sites according to her... Are contracted to go on dates with men if they show up. They are paid plain and simple. They are paid to have their pics posted on the internet and paid extra to go on a date if someone shows up. They don't write the letters... There is a staff that does that. (which makes sense. How in gods name can one girl as beautiful as that reply to even 15 letters a week from various people).. And you better believe they get more like 50 letters a week from 50 different guys. If your reading this you know how much they charge per letter... Do the math on the cash cow this is for these people. Yes there are legit people on there but chances are if she's good looking she's not writing those letters
As I heard this story unfold it made more and more sense... Obviously I was pretty furious after initially hearing this that I had not been told sooner but thankfully love prevailed and my wife and I married a year later. But I also learned that these women are on multiple sites as they get paid from multiple agencies to do the same thing. And here's the kicker... Ever wonder why you get so many emails from these various women when you sign up? Cause they have a staff writing emails under the women's name to you to initiate conversation. Idiots like myself actually believe that this women is really sending you a letter.
Funny thing was I was always wondering why some emails seemed to be written by someone else... Some where short and cold. Others were warm and long. I even bought this women a ipod for christmas like a fool and she sent the picture the agency took of them giving it to her. I found out that its a perk of being on the site... Yes the women get to keep the gifts.
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. Best I can tell you folks is obviously stay away from this women as she's a cold hearted scammer that goes out with 2-3 dates a week from chanceforlove.com alone. Moreover she didn't even call me till the day before I left. Can you believe that? I mean I'm not one to toot my horn but I'm not fat bald and over 50... She was 23 and I was 28 at the time... Italian. Good looking. This was the main reason I thought that I had a chance as I knew the majority of men on the site were fat, bald and over 50 who couldn't get a women.
Regardless...
Just beware of international dating and be careful. Keep a level head... Not to say good women don't exist but life is so difficult in former soviet union that these women are easily lead astray with the thought of easy money.
Regards
Charle C.
P.S.-ever wonder why the women look unbelievable? Sure they are hot but they have professional photographers that are top of the line to hook you in
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